Experience description:
My
grandmother was put on end-of-life watch at the start of the month. My family
has been worried about my father, because he's been taking care of her for years
while she faced dementia and late-stage cancer. While I wandered around the
house at about midnight on October 3rd, I felt a huge surge of electricity well
up inside of my brain and upper back. The sensation itself felt like a gas
bubble rising from beneath a huge body of water. As the energy intensified, like
a bubble making its way to the surface and into the light, multiple images of my
grandmother overtook my visual memory; it followed no chronological pattern (if
any pattern at all), but I saw my own, visual memories of her throughout time in
that moment as this energetic feeling overwhelmed my nerves. Eventually, I felt
the electricity discharge from the top of my head as if the bubble reached the
surface and popped. My mind cleared up. There wasn't any other sensory
hallucinations/experiences. I woke up around 7 AM and went onto social media,
seeing my father post the news of my grandmother's passing the very minute I
logged in (likely a coincidence).
I
talked to my mother later that day about my experience, but it was a bit
difficult since I have to be very, very careful of topics I've yet to
rationalize. I study philosophy, consider myself a skeptic, and all of that. It
turns out that my mother woke up around the time I had my experience before
going back to sleep.
Let's fast-forward to the night of October 6th, and I'll do my best to explain
this as critically as possible. Anyway, I was very exhausted from a trip the day
before--my body temperature was slightly elevated, so I took the day off to
recover. Around sundown, I had a different electrical feeling course through my
body. This time, it exacerbated my exhaustion, my mood neutralized, and my ego
began to slip away. I'm normally an anxious person who's fixated on what's to
come, but I felt all of my worries, ambitions, traumatic experiences, and
familial connections becoming irrelevant to my memory or being. Then, I felt the
connections between time, space, and literally everything that has existed and
presently exists. I was intellectually aware of the future potential of all
things while my ego continued to fade away. Then, I felt reality slowly pull
onto these connections to collapse onto itself and into my core. I was on the
verge of blacking out, but I didn't. Just to note: I'm autistic, so this was an
extremely, EXTREMELY uncomfortable and overwhelming feeling.
Thankfully, my mind was clear enough, so I thought of my earthly concerns (my
emotions were more absent than they typically are) because that experience lined
up with two things: one, although extremely rare, I've had premonitions with
this empirical sensory experience out of nowhere that overtook my ego; two, I've
been reading NDEs, ADCs, and the like, and I noticed a couple of aspects
matching those believed to be typical to well-researched NDEs, ADCs, and the
like. I thought to myself, trying to laugh it off, 'I owe too many people here,
and I better not die.' I was roiling around in my discomfort, trying to
rationalize and trying to keep track of potential evidence as a skeptic should
do, until I had a visual overtake my mind while I was (almost entirely)
conscious: I saw a light as luminous and intense as our Sun, directly focusing
on it as if I was looking directly at it, and I heard 'I'm sorry' before the
visual and this entire feeling faded away.
Everything went back to normal, and I returned to that feeling before the
experience. My mom might've had a burst of energy at this time since she cleaned
a lot of the house during this moment, but I'm too hesitant and tired to talk to
her. I'll treat my mother's (probable) burst of energy as a simple correlation
until I have the mental fortitude to bring it up. Lastly, to speak as a skeptic,
my mother's actions and experiences coincided with mine enough that I thought to
bring it to a researcher's attention and not brush it off as I normally would.
But that
concludes the experiences I've had lately. I don't know if my Oct. 6th
experience was my grandmother finally passing on, because I couldn't identify
anyone at that moment. What was true, though, (and I dare not conclude that she
was talking to me at all) is that she and I didn't have the best relationship.
While I cannot say anything about how the mind might survive after bodily death
or outside the body at all, I've always believed in restorative justice and
letting all people learn and improve. So, I decided to keep the identity thing
open-ended for my grandmother, as if this is her space to speak and not mine.
Was the kind of experience
difficult to express in words?
Uncertain I don't have a problem with
explaining this academically, but I feel like I have to be careful of lexical
gaps.
At the time of this experience, was
there an associated life threatening event?
No
What was your level of
consciousness and alertness during the experience?
I was more-or-less completely conscious
during both cases. My agency was completely intact.
Was the experience dream like in any way?
I'd say no
Did you experience a separation of
your consciousness from your body?
I don't think
dream describes it. Both cases felt like a genuine perceptual/empirical experience that
triggered vivid imagery (first case) and/or an altered state of consciousness
(second case).
What emotions did you feel during
the experience?
Uncertain
Did you hear any unusual sounds or
noises?
The second case
was an altered state of consciousness that felt like my consciousness was on the
verge of separation.
LOCATION DESCRIPTION:
Did you recognize any familiar locations or any locations from familiar
religious teachings or encounter any locations inhabited by incredible or
amazing creatures?
My emotions
were my own at the time. I responded to the first case with alertness as I
studied it. I responded uncomfortably in the second case until I started to lose
my ego.
Only in the second case and at the very
end. I heard 'I'm sorry' beside images of a visualization of the Sun. I can't
say whether or not that could've been the light since I didn't notice any
identity to it.
Did you see a light?
No
Did you meet or see any other
beings?
Yes
The light appeared in my imagination. It looked
like the sun, as if I looked directly at it. My imagination visualized the
intensity and burning sensation you'd expect if you looked at the sun (I'm
autistic and incredibly sensitive to blue light). I saw something like the blue
sky around it, but I'm not sure if it was the intensity of the light or my
imagination filling in the blanks.
Did you experiment while out of the
body or in another, altered state?
Uncertain
I
couldn't identify any beings, but I won't deny the possibility. I also could've
sensed my grandmother's passing as if it was an extrasensory experience. I can't
confirm if the second experience had another being, if not my grandmother,
conveying 'I'm sorry' to me through any extrasensory means.
Did you observe or hear anything
regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?
Yes In the second case, I studied my
altered state of consciousness as much as I could.
Did you notice how your 5 senses
were working, and if so, how were they different?
No
Did you have any sense of altered space or time?
Yes My bodily senses didn't feel like a
source of my experiences. My brain's active memory was certainly processing them
as if I did sense them, but I doubt it'd be right to say that my brain could've
been a possible source of my experiences. I've always been very keen about my
mental and physical states throughout my life; I just received medication for my
lifelong somatic anxiety. There's also the possibility of electrical discharges
coinciding with my current mood and worries about my grandmother's passing, but
my mother's experience (first case) and behavior (second case) happened at the
same time of my experiences.
Did you have a sense of knowing,
special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
Yes
My second experience came with a sense of
altered space-time. First, I sensed the connection between space, time, and and
everything that has existed and presently existed. I also had the sensation of
spacetime collapsing into this sort of singularity unto myself; it felt like it
was pulling onto these connections from this singular point. But, I think I was
too preoccupied with studying my present state to sense events that could've
happened at different points of space-time. I also wouldn't doubt that the
knowledge could've been available to me, if I was in fact connected to all of
this information.
Did you reach a boundary or
limiting physical structure?
Yes I'm certain that I sensed a
connection among all things as they are within states of time/causality.
Did you become aware of future
events?
Uncertain I sensed something akin to an
additional property of physics. I'm not well-trained in physics and don't want
to make wild assumptions beyond what I experienced and currently know.
Were you involved in or aware of a
decision regarding your return to the body?
Uncertain I believe it could've been
possible, if I wasn't to preoccupied with studying my second experience.
Did you have any psychic,
paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have
prior to the experience?
No
Did you have any changes of
attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Uncertain No confirmation. I'm sending this
the morning after my second experience. I very rarely had these spooky
experiences up until this point, but feel free to reach out to me sometime in
the future.
How has the experience affected
your relationships? Daily life? Religious practices? Career choices?
Yes
Has your life changed specifically
as a result of your experience?
I'm just taking
this as new knowledge that I should bring to a researcher. I was uncomfortable
during the second experience, but I'd rather judge this objectively. I've had other spooky
experiences in the past, but I brushed them aside since I had nothing to really
support them beyond brain activity, hallucinations, and the like.
Have you shared this experience
with others?
I'm more
skeptical of contemporary hard-materialism. I've read Dr. Long's paper for that
writing contest in 2021 before this experience, and I'd say (despite being an
undergrad) that the consistency could be some justification for further study. My experiences exclusively affected my
outlook of things.
What emotions did you experience
following your experience?
Yes
What was the best and worst part of
your experience?
I shared the
first experience with my mother and some friends. OBERF was the first to hear of
my second experience.
Is there anything else you would
like to add concerning the experience?
I was taken
aback. I took note of everything and returned to normal.
Following the experience, have you
had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced
any part of the experience?
Uncertain I can't say.
Did the questions asked and
information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
No
Please offer any suggestions you
may have to improve this questionnaire.
Yes
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