Steph W's
ADC
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I was vacuuming the
sitting room where the picture boards are from the funeral. Several people
helped pick the pictures out and one of them was a great picture of my dad and
my mom with my newborn son. We actually printed out an 8 by 10 of this picture
since it was such a great one. We all have looked at this picture several
times. Even after the funeral, I took my kids in the sitting room to look at
the pictures of my dad so they don't forget about him. Before the vacuuming
incident, the last time we had been in there to look at these pictures was maybe
a week prior. As I was vacuuming, I looked at this picture ( as I had many times
before) and I noticed what I thought was a strange glare. I thought it was a
reflection from the window or a weird bend in the picture. I went close to the
picture and I could not believe my eyes. It was a distinct halo above my dad's
head. I was in shock because that halo had not been there before. I called my
husband over and he was in shock too. He confirmed that the halo had not been
there before. I also called the nanny over who had seen the picture before and
after and she confirmed the same thing. The other odd thing is that the halo was
also on the small picture that I gave my baby to hold. I had my husband check
the original digital picture and we could not believe it was on the original
too. It was definitely not there before and a digital camera of this quality
does not make distinct halos like that. I showed my mom the picture the next day
and we both broke down in tears. I told her it was his way of saying that he is
in heaven and will be waiting for her when it is her time. This is comforting
but also hard to process.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
Yes
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
The pictures
still have the halos
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
The same
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
Because the hard proof is in front of my face.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in
detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
Same as above but could
also feel his presence
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I feel he is in a
good place and that is comforting.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Did
you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.? Yes
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
Listed above
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
Three other people. One was not family
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
No
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes they were.
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes