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Experience description:

I have had many experiences with my father, after he passed away in 1999, but this experience was very different.

I was asleep in my bed, when I found myself in a controlled dream by my father. I was standing in a dark loft, in a townhome(I believe). I could sense that there was someone standing next to me, but I didn't know who it was. I suddenly heard my deceased dog barking and I proceeded to run down a dark staircase with excitement.(My dog Daisy had passed away in 2012.I had been very upset over her passing away from cancer.)As I reached the bottom of the stairs, I could see a room in front of me with the lights off, but then I seen a light to the left of me, so I followed the light, in which lead me to a kitchen. (As I entered this kitchen, from what I believe was my dad's home on the other side) I looked to the right of me, as I entered and there was my father standing beside a refrigerator.

He looked healthy and wearing same clothes, as I had seen him wearing on earth. He motioned with his left hand, pointing to the floor and said, 'See she's all right' as I looked, there was my dog Daisy, healthy, barking and playing with a white teddy bear with a purple bow on it, that I have never bought for her, while she was alive on earth. I have never seen it before. My dog was pulling at it and jumping on it. I was so happy to see her, and she ran to me when I called her name. I was kneeling on the floor, holding her. She felt and looked solid. I can feel her body and fur, but yet she was weightless. I can feel her lick my face, but not the wetness of her tongue. I kept telling her how much I miss her and love her, then at that moment I woke up. I tried to go back to sleep to be with her again, but I couldn't. I know my father seen how I was torn over her death and wanted me to know that she is on the other side with him. Alive and well.

Background Information:

Was this experience difficult to express in words?          No

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?      No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

          Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:   I heard my dad's voice in that kitchen telling me that my dog was all right. Dog barking

          Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?     I heard my dad talk to me normally, as if he did on earth. Same room. Same with my deceased dog.

          If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?     Same

          Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?   No

          Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   None

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?         Yes

I held my dog. My father was off to the side, watching.

           
Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar? familiar

          Was anything communicated by the touch? No

           
Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?   No

Did you see the deceased?       Yes

My father and pet looked the same as on earth when they were both alive on earth

           
How clearly did the deceased appear?            Very clear

           
How much of the deceased did you see?       Full body of father and dog

           
Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?           My father looked 10 years younger and healthy. Dog look very healthy.

           
How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            Both my father and my pet died of cancer. My father couldn't stand and was very weak. Last couple days before he passed, he couldn't talk. Pet was very weak and also couldn't walk,but could after passing.

           
Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?   No

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased? Yes

          What smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?          My pet. Her fur smelled fresh

          Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?          She smelled clean

          Was anything communicated by the smell?  No

          Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?         No

How long did the experience last?      Couple minutes

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?       As soon as I fell asleep I was in an unfamiliar townhome. I was able to hold my pet for a moment, then suddenly I woke up.

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?          Yes

My dad was calm, but wanted to let me know my pet that he never met on earth was alright.

My dog was happy to see me.

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  Yes, that my dog was alright on the other side.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?          Experience was definitely real

          Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:   It was very real. My father never met my dog while she was alive on earth. My father passed away in 1999 and she was born in 2000

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  I was very happy, but sad cause both my father and pet were no longer alive on earth.

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience? Yes

Cause I know that there is another world or dimension beyond this life on earth.

What was the best and worst part of your experience?          The whole dream was pleasant.

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience? No                 

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?      Yes    I've always believed in the afterlife, but believe it 100% now.  

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?    Yes

Well, my father would joke that if he passed away he'd come back and haunt me. I was close to my dad and we would joke.

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          No

What emotions did you feel during the experience?         I was probably feeling sad

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          No

Did you become aware of future events?      No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?      No

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?   Uncertain

Not sure.I just felt the whole dream was controlled

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?          Uncertain

I sensed a presence in the dark loft, but did not know who it was.

Did you see a light?        Yes

Just a kitchen light.

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?     No

Have you shared this experience with others?      

Yes    I told family members and friends. They found it fascinating. Friends and family members have had experiences also.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?         Uncertain

Pet grieving site. For people who are grieving the loss of their pet.

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?   No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?          No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?       No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event? Yes 

Well, the experience lasted a moment. I was sound asleep and I could see my soul leave my body. I floated up to my ceiling, but someone was holding me, so I wouldn't float further away.

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?           Yes

Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.       No