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Experience description:

1st: Knew my Father was 'making up his mind' if he wished to continue living, or Pass On to the Next Life.  Ten minutes later, the lead surgeon came to tell me that  my Father had Passed Away on the Operating Room table in the Hospital. While in the elevator to go to the lowest floor (with the Nurse, who needed us to sign papers), the elevator SHOT UPWARDS PAST THE LAST FLOOR, and was 'stuck' there for 20 mins., approximately. Dad was saying 'Good Bye.'

2nd: My Mother was diagnosed with leukemia one year after my Father Passed Away. In our Family, we do not take LOSS of a loved One easily. My Mother was very ill and was dying 3-1/2 years after my Father Passed Away. Before my Uncle and my step-sister and I were to visit my Mother in the Hospital, I was mowing the front lawn.  Even with ear protectors on, I heard my Mother's voice as clearly and plainly as she said: 'I cannot go on without your Father. I want to be with him.'  10 minutes later, we were called by the Hospital and were told my Mother had just Passed Away.

Was this experience difficult to express in words? No

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?          No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?       Yes

          Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:          Father's THOUGHTS expressed whether he wished to continue living, or to Pass on.

Mother's VOICE was plainly heard by me, even though I was mowing the lawn and was also wearing ear protectors.

          Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?          INSIDE of me- both times.

          If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?    EXACTLY like their voice(s).

          Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience? NO!

          Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?       NO!

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?       No

Did you see the deceased?       No

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased? No

How long did the experience last?      A few seconds- possibly 15 seconds.

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?      Normal- as a person would tell me something.

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?          Yes

Father-Ready to Pass On, not frightened.

Mother- Very TIRED of the leukemia killing her and NEEDED to be with her Husband, my Father.

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?          NO.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?          Experience was definitely real

          Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:   Hearing the THOUGHTS or the VOICE of my Parents was the REALITY of the Event.

          Was the experience dream like in any way?  No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  Aware of my Parents' desires to LEAVE this, particular life.

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience? Yes  They were no longer suffering.

What was the best and worst part of your experience?     My parents were no longer suffering from their respective illnesses; I miss them terribly.

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience? Yes                Describe:     Yes. My parents have been 'gone' for 38-42 Years. I miss them.
     
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience? No      Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?   Yes          The Next Life Exists.

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?         No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?         Yes What my Parents told me was verified within 10 minutes after I heard their respective voices.

What emotions did you feel during the experience?          Relief for my PARENTS, sadness that they were gone from my life.

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          Yes  Elevator shot upwards (instead of the 'Down' button the Nurse pushed) and jammed ABOVE the last floor of the Hospital.

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?  No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?         No

Did you become aware of future events?      No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience? No

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?  No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?   No

Did you see a light?        No

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?     No

Have you shared this experience with others?       Yes    My step-sister believed me. She has similar abilities to be able to go 'beyond' this plane of Existence.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?       Yes

Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience? Telepathic communication EXISTS between people who LOVE one another.

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?          No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?    No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?     Yes  https://www.nderf.org/Experiences/1stanley_s_nde.html

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?                     Uncertain

I had TWO PARENTS, and it appeared there was only 'room' for ONE PERSON.