The night he died he visited me while I was awake( I think) he came and hugged me and told me he loved me. I didn't think it was strange because my family had not told me he was back in the hospital (they tried to protect me). I was told the next morning.

I argued with them saying it couldn't be because I had just saw him last night. For the next few years my daughter would talk about Grandpa like he was there. She was so young I didn't think she knew what she was talking about. I would hear her in her crib cooing to someone and there was no one there. As she got older she would tell me Grandpa was there  with her. My mother and I both believe he was there with her. She stopped seeing him after she was about 3 or 4 I think because she stopped talking about him.

A few years ago I started dreaming about him and he would come in my dreams and relay how much he loved me and sometimes talk about nothing important. Then a few months ago it was very real. He came in my dream and I hugged him and cried. I could feel him-really feel him solidly and smell him. When I woke up I could still feel him and smell him but he was obviously not there. It kind of rattled me.

3 days ago my grandma died. Yesterday was her funeral. Last night I had a dream. Grandpa was there and he said "You will get your answers and Proof soon." I had a notepad with 3-5 questions on it but I couldn't read them. I was then sitting at a booth with 3 of my aunts around me. He was sitting to my left side, one of my aunts( Judy) was to my right because I could feel her, my aunt Kathy was sitting across from me and her face was lit up like a light was directed there and my other aunt Diana was to her right but she was darkened like shaded( I could only make out her silhouette). I said " I have no friends and am talking to my dead grandpa about my dead grandma. I will get my answers and proof soon." Then I began to cry. My aunt Kathy gave me a sympathetic smile. I then woke up with a very strong sense of action. I felt like I had to immediately do something. I just don't know what. I never saw my Grandpa's face in this dream when usually it is very clear. I just sensed it was him. Maybe it was God relaying the message he had for me through my grandpa because he knew I had a strong connection to him and would pay more attention. I have many questions about this one. I hope in time I know what it is I am supposed to do or not do.