Sarah V's
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I had a dream about a month after my grandfather died unexpectedly. In the dream, I park my car in front of my mothers house. Theres a strange car parked in the driveway. As I walk up to the house, my grandfather comes out the front door, followed by a man I dont know. Theyre laughing and talking. The other man keeps walking, he doesnt look at me or speak to me, and gets in the drivers seat of the car. My grandfather stops to talk to me. He tells me that he loves me and hes very proud of me. He gives me a big hug. Its so full of love and strength; it feels like heaven. Then he says they have to go because theyre off to play golf. He goes and gets in the passenger seat of the car and they drive off.
I had my second dream almost 2 years later when I was getting ready to move across country from Virginia to Oregon. I wasnt especially nervous about the trip or anything. Im pretty independent. But I had a dream that my grandfather showed up at my house in Virginia. He was in a big, strange car, but another man was driving. My grandfather tells me he loves me and he wants me to be safe, so theyre going to drive me to Oregon. The other man drives, but he doesnt speak or look at me. He talks softly with my grandfather, though, and I cant understand what theyre saying. My grandfather sits in the passenger seat and I sit in the back and watch the scenery go by. He takes me to Oregon, drops me off, and drives away. Theres no special burst of feeling or mood. I just feel watched and protected and loved. I feel safe and like Im making a good decision with the move.
Several years later, my husband and I were married in Las Vegas. This was not a dream. We have the certificate to prove it. We were joined by my brother, Michael, and my best friend, Michele. After the wedding ceremony, we went back to the hotel to have dinner. But Michael and I stopped to play blackjack for a while. I was wearing my wedding dress and Michael was wearing a tuxedo. My brother was losing terribly, but I was on a winning streak, so I kept giving him chips. We were having a great time. I vaguely remember another, older man at the table. He was smoking a cigarette and drinking something on the rocks. He congratulated me on my wedding, but he didnt look familiar. I didnt know that Michele was taking pictures of us playing cards until I got them developed a couple of months later. I was working off-site in Peoria, IL, and my mom drove over from Indianapolis to stay in the hotel with me. We were just visiting, hitting the hot tub, and hanging out. While I was at work, she took some of my wedding film to be developed at the one-hour photo. When I got back to the hotel she had one of them sitting on the bed and she asked me to look at it and tell her what I thought. It was a picture Michele had taken of my brother and me playing blackjack. And sitting next to me at the table is my grandfather (moms dad), who died 7 years earlier. You can see of his face, but it looks exactly like him features, glasses, posture. Its incredible. I loved my grandfather very much and get was crazy about me. I know he would have given anything to be at my wedding. And with this picture its like he was.
Have
you had multiple experiences?
Yes
Three separate experiences with my grandfather
Was this experience difficult
to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense an
awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling
or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the deceased or
hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what
you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
I heard him talk to me in my
dreams.
If you heard a
voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the
deceased made when they were alive?
It was his voice.
Is there any
possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
No.
Was there any
possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
No.
Did you feel a touch or
experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
He hugged me.
Was the touch
familiar or unfamiliar?
It was his hug. Very familiar.
Was anything
communicated by the touch?
Lots of love and support and
pride.
Is there any
possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
No.
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
He looked good. He looked
healthy but still older.
How clearly did
the deceased appear?
Clear
How much of the
deceased did you see?
All
Did the deceased
appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
Pretty much the same. Maybe a
little younger.
How healthy did
the deceased appear to be?
As healthy as he ever was as a
smoker.
Is there any
possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
Yes. In the picture, it may have
been the light or just a casual likeness amplified by personal desire to see
him.
Did you smell a distinct
smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Good mood... busy... lots to
do.
Did the deceased give you
information you did not previously know?
No. I knew he loved me.
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Please explain
why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:
I believe it was real.
Was the
experience dream like in any way?
Yes They were dreams. But
the picture was totally real and unexpected.
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
Very happy. Rushed. Loved and
protected. A little sad.
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I really missed him. And now I
know he's always with me. He's my guardian.
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
Getting to see my grandpa and hear
that he's still watching over me and still proud of me.
Has your life changed
specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
I honor
those connections more.
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes That our connections during life don't disappear or diminish after
death. That the people in our lives leave something inside of us, whether
they're still around or not. He changed me with his love.
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What
emotions did you feel during the experience?
Protected and
loved.
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
Yes
Some strange guy who wouldn't look or talk to me. I kind of didn't want to talk
to him.
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have
you shared this experience with others?
Yes Mixed
reactions. Mostly that how you take it is the key to understanding it. That it's
all in the interpretation.
Have
you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or
web site?
No
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes