Rebecca's
ADC
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At another time I smelled his cologne in my family dorm. Again I never saw him but he came to me and told me that he would not be as close as he had been before, that he had some other things he had to do. He didn't speak in words, but it was a sensation. This happened about two years after his death.
I have had
3 dreams with him in them. He never speaks to me and always wears his dark
glasses. He communicates with me through physical gestures. The dreams
typically have to do with my involvement with a person and his feelings about
them.
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense an
awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling
or smelling them?
Uncertain
Did you hear the deceased or
hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a touch or
experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Uncertain
It wasn't an actual touch--it
was a warmth that encompassed me.
Was the touch
familiar or unfamiliar?
It was familiar only like being in his presence
Was anything
communicated by the touch?
The feeling communicated the words
that I understood.
Is there any
possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
There was nothing around me, no
drafts, etc.
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a distinct
smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
Yes
What smell,
scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
The second experience I smelled
the cologne he always wore.
Was the smell,
scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
Yes, it was distinctly his going
to work smell.
Was anything
communicated by the smell?
At that time, he communicated
somehow that he would not be as close as he had been since his passing.
Is there any
possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source
present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
No.
How long did the experience
last?
Only for a minute or so. I tried
to keep talking to him, but he left quickly as far as I can tell.
Was the beginning and end of
the experience gradual or more sudden?
It all seemed sudden and
quick.
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
Uncertain
An all pervading sense of love
and knowledge of him always was there at the time of the experiences.
Did the deceased give you
information you did not previously know?
When he said he would no
longer be as close, it seemed as though he was telling me that he was moving on
to another level of after-life duty???
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience?
Experience was probably real
Please explain
why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:
Lately I find so many things fall
together in a "relative" sort of way. Coincidences are far too common in my
life. Sometimes I wonder if it all was coincidence working to comfort me?
Was the
experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
I was calm. Just taking in
information and not really sure why it was presented to me in that particular
way.
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
Uncertain
Perhaps I began to work harder
on my spiritual self to have a better understanding of life and it's purpose. I
tried to better myself and make better choices (keyword=tried)
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
Not being able to see him bothered
my. Being able to feel him and smell him was wonderful.
Has your life changed
specifically as a result of your experience?
Uncertain
Describe:
I tried to please him more,
but always find that I have to follow my specific God given talents in life
Did you have any changes of
attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
I began to think I was capable
of connecting to God to be a better person
Did the experience give you
any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Uncertain
I believe it helped some to
determine that maybe there was a connection between us and it was for good.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did you observe or hear
anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel
during the experience?
Still relaxation and confusion.
Trying to figure out what it meant.
Have you shared this
experience with others?
No
I don't recall influencing
anyone. They seem to empathize, knowing that there is a greater connecting
between us than we realize.
Have you shared this
experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Were there any associated
medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the experience, have
you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which
reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in your life have
a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual
event?
Yes
I have had a few unusual
experiences that are a bit more involved.
Did the questions asked and
information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
The experience is so simple,
that I can't seems to describe it any better.