Rachel
C's
ADC
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I had locked myself out
of my house and I had phoned my boyfriend to ask him if he could meet me there
and let me in. When I arrived at the house I was aware that he had already
arrived and was waiting inside for me. As I walked down the path I noticed a
huge, low, orange full moon and I knocked on the door and beckoned him out to
see the moon. We were standing on the path looking in awe at the moon - when my
boyfriend said "WoW" What IS that smell?" Immediately I could smell the scent of
daffodils, spring flowers, freesias - like I had NEVER smelt them before - and
at the time it was dark and the ground was frozen solid, spring was late and
there wasn't a flower in the garden. My hair was standing on end - but at the
same time I had this feeling of pure joy and love, go through me - quite
quickly.
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
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Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
Yes
What
smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
The sweetest, most
heavenly scent of spring flowers I have ever smelt. My mum's favorite flower was
the daffodil and the spring was her favorite time of the year.
Was
the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
Spring bulbs/flowers..
as above
Was
anything communicated by the smell?
I felt 100% sure it was
a gift/sign from my mum - saying that all was well, death is not the end.
Is
there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any
other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
Absolutely not -
frozen ground, at night time - no flowers/shrubs all bare from a cold winter. No
other houses, people around. It was just such a heavenly scent that I was nearly
bowled over by it.
How long did the
experience last?
not even 5
minutes - the strong flower fragrance was there and then gradually faded away.
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
Beginning was
sudden - then gradually faded away.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Yes, love - joy -
humor!
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I was totally amazed by it - it was very, very real - and felt totally natural.
Shared by both of us and just so unexpected. I was lost for words after.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in
detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
My hair stood on end, I
was like WOOOOOWW!!! I was saying "thank you Mum" - my knees felt weak and I had
to go and sit down. Still in awe over the experience now. I felt love, joy and
humor all at once...........
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
Yes, I always called
on the experience to reassure myself when I was missing her and grieving for
her.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
I think that this
experience was the most significant thing to happen in my life.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
I do have faith
in the scheme of things - most of the time...100% pro life after death.
Did you have
any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
Great faith in life after death - hopeful for the meaning of live - although
can't always make sense of it!
Did the experience
give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Yes
I felt in awe about the universe and the meaning of life. I felt that I had
received 100% proof of an afterlife, and I was very grateful for that - because
I was a bit of a skeptic before that.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
No
What emotions
did you feel during the experience?
I was lost for words -
I had to go and sit down - then I felt slightly spooked for a while. I totally
recognized a profound significance and was grateful that mum was able to give me
such a gift.
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
I was with my
boyfriend.
Did you have any
sense of altered space or time?
No
Did you have a
sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
As above
Did you become
aware of future events?
No
Did you have any
psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did
not have prior to the experience?
Uncertain
Have had a few
occasion when I have had psychic abilities - my mum and I were always very in
tune with each other.
Did you experience
a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did you meet or see
any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did any part of
your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described
above?
No
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
This is the second part to the experience - I phoned my Dad up (who at this
point was remarried) and told him about the experience with the spring flower
scent and he was like "well, you know I can't really get to grips with all this
ethereal stuff, but I'm sure that if she could do it, she would have done it for
you"...A few days after that time I was talking about my experience with his
wife who said "oooh! Didn't he tell you?" What happened was that immediately
upon putting the phone down from our conversation, she has walked into the room
and said "How you been entertaining a tart in here??!!" She could smell the same
smell of spring flowers or Lilies she said she could smell most of all! She said
it was so overpowering you couldn't miss it. I reckon my mum was having a joke
at his expense! Strangely - my Dad couldn't smell it. Maybe she felt he didn't
deserve to!
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Is there anything
else you would like to add regarding your experience?
Yes. After my
experience I remembered my mum telling me about an experience that she had had a
few years before she died. She had looked after a friend of hers who had passed
away due to cancer. A few weeks after she had died my mum said she was sitting
alone in her front room and she suddenly smelt a strong smell of bergamot (this
was an essential oil that she associated with her friend as she had used it in
massage treatment) - she said to me "I knew it was Olga" - then she said the
smell kind of "went off a bit" and that "it started to smell fishy!!"" So she
said out loud "OK Olga! Thanks for visiting me, glad everything is alright - you
can go now"! My mum said to me relaying the story that she thought Olga hadn't
been able to do it quite right!! At the time I thought it was a rather silly
story and more or less dismissed it! When it came to it - my mum did it all just
right for me!! Show off!! I'm just so grateful that she did do it for me! Thanks
Mum!
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
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Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
Please offer any
suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.
Thanks for giving me
the opportunity to share my experience!