I have had a few experiences and I will be happy to share them with you. One experience was with someone who is still alive, my mother who also experienced the event during sleep. My fianc also experienced something similar with her mother while she was alive, her mother is now the deceased involved in my ADC.  

The first part of the ADC occurred close to her death. I was in my bed when suddenly the while room was shrouded in bright light, the common features of the room remained and my girlfriends mother sat on the side of the bed next to my girlfriend, she told me how we were all doing well and how we shouldn't cry for her, especially my girlfriend. Then it ended as soon as it had started and I settled down to sleep, I didn't feel afraid but comforted.  

I have also had more subtle experiences concerning this deceased (1) and another (1). Making three (3) in total but no more.  

I also experienced something totally inexplicable during dream state regarding someone I didn't know was dead, please feel free to contact me about this.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  It was as if I was talking to another person.

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           Exact Voice.

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           No.

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   No.

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            No

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

I had known the deceased between 2000 - 2008 they had lost their hair to cancer yet when she appeared she had a full head of hair.

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            Solid as if alive and really inside the room.

            How much of the deceased did you see?       Head to bottom of knees.

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       Slightly younger by 1-2 years.

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            No infirmities before death. The deceased looked healthy and vibrant.

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           No.

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

            What smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?           Not on this occasion but previously I have smelled flowers.

            Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?     Flowers - Lilies.

            Was anything communicated by the smell?   No. h

            Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?        No

How long did the experience last?        Less that 60 seconds.

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         Sudden.

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           No

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  No

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was probably real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           I have had varied experiences which I could not accept as real or not real. Emma Heathcote James has given me the experiences of other peoples experiences and let me draw open them.

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   Uncertain

This particular experience was in the bedroom while trying to get to sleep. Another experience not described here was during sleep indefinitely ( the one where I didn't know the deceased was dead). My other two ADC's were during waking hours while driving (once) and doing the washing up (once)


Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           As if everything was perfectly natural and normal.

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      Unsure!

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         No      

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          No

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            Comforted but wanted to keep the event to myself.

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?         Uncertain

Following previous ADC's YES!

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?            Yes

I saw my girlfriend sound asleep next to me.

Did you see a light?           Yes

The half of the room where the deceased was illuminated in a bright light.

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?            No

Have you shared this experience with others?         No      

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes