Paula J's
ADC
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I was sleeping and dreaming. In the dream I was at my uncles funeral but it was not the way his actual funeral went. It was after the funeral and everyone was still inside the place except myself and my mother (my uncles sister). I was distressed about my uncle being gone and my mother was trying to comfort me with words about my uncle. I said to her "You know it's not the same. You out of everyone knows it's not the same." (meaning that my uncle being gone and in a better place he same as him actually being here and that he has gone forever).
Suddenly then I felt
(physically felt) something I could not see speeding forwards me so fast it had
an actual force and then I saw my uncle walk very quickly towards me and he got
to where I was and he lent down and kissed me on the cheek. I felt him do
this. I felt his body (shoulder I think) touch my chest and I woke up at his
point. I felt extremely scared as this had never happened to me. Where I felt
my uncles body touch my chest I was tingling in that exact place.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
I felt my uncle kiss
my cheek with his lips and I felt a part of his body (shoulder I think) brush
against my chest.
Was
the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
It was familiar - it
felt like his real, human body.
Was
anything communicated by the touch?
love. I think. I
hope. I felt like he was trying to tell me that he was okay and he appreciated
me being there for him (even though I would never want my uncle to say thank you
for being there for him).
Is
there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
My uncle looked much
younger than he did when he died. His hair was black again not grey and he was
not wearing his glasses. He looked healthy and he was able to walk again. He
was wearing clothes. He wore brown trousers and a cream shirt with brown lines
going up and down and across.
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
solid. very solid.
like any human being.
How
much of the deceased did you see?
all of him from the
from
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
he was not the age
at which he died
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
yes, he seemed very
healthy in comparison to when he died. When he died he could not speak. (I did
not hear him speak though). He was unable to walk/stand/move on his own and he
can now.
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no. none what so ever
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
a few seconds
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
sudden
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
concerned. eager
and determined to get to me. almost defiant.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
no
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
because I physically felt it and it was real.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
Yes
I was in a state of
sleep and was in a dream but he came to me and physically touched me in my dream
and it was 100% physically me and 100% physically my uncle in that moment
Describe in
detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
(In regards to question
22, I felt none of those emotions but I did feel scared. Something that I did
not believe could ever really happen deep down actually happened).
During the experience I
felt happy and amazed to see my uncle but that was for a split second. I cannot
recall exactly why but I think fear came over me and that is why I woke. When I
opened my eyes the place where my uncle touched my chest was trembling
physically.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Uncertain
I guess so. I know
my uncle is okay and before I did not know for sure where he was or how he was.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
best was when he came
and kissed me on the cheek. Worst was waking up and realized that I had pushed
him away
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did
you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes I have always believed in the soul living on with God after death and I
believe it even more now. I believe that my uncle is in another world that has
no comparison to the world we live in.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
shock. belief in my self and my senses that it actually happened. 100% certain
it happened
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
Yes
Yes. I felt my uncle's force come from somewhere other than this world. Its
like he shot into this earth from a place outside of this world. The force when
I first noticed it came from above and in front of me.
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
No
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
it
was very much linked to my body
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes I have told my mum and my cousin and two friends.
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes