Paula F's
ADC
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I was asleep in bed and
my boyfriend woke and went to the toilet and I heard the telephone ring I sat up
reached onto his side of the bed and picked the receiver up, my nana's voice
said "hello Paula" I scanned my brain and thought how does my Nan know I am here
, did I give her this number, I had not long moved in, I said "hello Nan!" she
said "hello Paula" again and again and at that point it dawned on me that my Nan
was dead, my boyfriend walked into the room and said
what are you doing, I looked down into my hands and realized we did not have a
phone in the bedroom, I said My Nan just rang me"
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated? I
heard her voice directly saying hello Paula
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
I recognized my Nan's
voice straight away and was pondering on how she knew my telephone number
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
NO
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
About twenty
seconds
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
beginning and a
middle
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
No she did not
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was probably
real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
It was my Nan's voice and I had had previous experiences when just awaking or
within dreams that had information of a third party that I could have not
consciously or unconsciously known .
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I was confused as to
how she had my number I had just woke up so felt a bit foggy and was in my head
going over our relation and where we were between us at this present time, once
I realized Nan had died before I had moved in my boyfriend walked in and the
connection was broke. I have had another experience also connecting to my Nan
that was sent a few months after.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
It gave me faith
that the soul carries on, not in text book god but in the renewal of the soul.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
Still not knowing the
truth
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you have
any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
Did the
experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife,
God, etc.? No Not this one but others have had direct messages from
deceased
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
Yes
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
Yes
But not this experience
What emotions did
you feel during the experience?
Happy, bewildered and a
little confused as to how she had contacted me, I did not realize until the very
end of the phone call that she had died as I recollected it ended.
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
My Partner came back
in the bedroom to ask me what I was doing sitting up, I knew it was strange what
I was going to tell him but I knew it was real
Did you have any
sense of altered space or time?
No
Did you have a
sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
Yes
I did but in another
experience a man in a white robe told me why the planets were the way they are,
and showed me a red star, I woke wanting to write down what I had learnt, I felt
the importance was in par with finding a cure to cancer, once I woke fully it
faded away. Afterwards however I experienced life fully, this lasted approx 3
months, things seemed brighter, stars more beautiful and music when waking
sounded heavenly!
Did you become
aware of future events?
No
Did you have any
psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did
not have prior to the experience?
Yes
Did you experience
a separation of your consciousness from your body? Yes
but not in this experience
Did you meet or see
any other beings other than the deceased?
Yes
Yes but not in this
experience
Did you see a
light?
No
Did any part of
your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described
above?
No
Have you shared
this experience with others? Yes
Have you shared this
experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
Yes
Family and friends,
I do keep a journal so I can remember
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
Yes
when I was little I
had a few experiences of travelling from my bed and down the stairs out the
house, sometimes out the window, but I would only go as far as the street in
case I could not get back in my body, I was 5 or 6 when I had these and when I
told my self go back or else you could get lost and not get back to your self, I
do not know why I thought that as my family were not spiritual in any sense.
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
although to get a
full picture I added others so not sure really
Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire. combine other experiences as most tie in .