Patti O's
ADC
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I was on an early morning flight to Florida. My dad had called around 9:30 PM the night before saying my mom was failing and for my brothers and me to come. Mom had no emergent medical condition, at least none that we were aware of. He blood work over the past few weeks showed reduced platelets, but other than that no reason to be particularly concerned about her health. I really didn't think her condition was that dire until my dad called me around 9:30 PM the night before and said that she fell at home and was weak so went to the ER, and that she coded!
I didn't sleep a wink that night and was on a 7 AM flight to Florida. Even thought I didn't sleep, I was not tired. I just wanted to land, get a rental car and drive to my mom.
About halfway through
the flight I closed my eyes - still not tired - and saw her - she looked
beautiful. There were hundreds of people around her, and she was raised on a
platform - at the time I described it as looking like the marble steps at the
Lincoln memorial, but now I don't remember seeing the steps. She was raised up,
sun shining on her, hair blowing in a slight breeze. There were colors more
spectacular than I've ever seen, and the people around (below) her were loving
and peaceful. She smiled at me and waved with both hands raised about as high
as her head. Then I woke up. I wish I looked at my watch, then I'd know if
that happened at the exact moment that she died.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
happy and healthy
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
solid
How
much of the deceased did you see?
full or most of her
body
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
same age as when she
died
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
very healthy. She had
been on a ventilator for about 11 hours prior to her death. other than that she
always looked healthy.
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
few seconds
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
sudden
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
very happy and
peaceful
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
probably that
she had passed.
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I didn't know she had died yet, and in this experience I definitely knew she
died.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
Yes
Only in that I
probably fell asleep but definitely different than any dream I ever had.
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I guess I was a little
worried about my mom, but I really didn't think she was going to die. She had
suffered worse medical conditions and always pulled through.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Uncertain
No emotional
healing, hurts like heck to live without mom. I do feel very lucky that she
came to say good-bye to me. How many people can say that? I didn't even know
she was gone and she came to me!
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
Gives me faith that she
thought of me and made the effort to come see me. Worst part was not being able
to find out if she had died for over an hour.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
No
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Uncertain Just confirmation that there is life after death
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
Uncertain Only that she had passed away.
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
I
was sad and anxious to land. I think I knew that she was gone after the
experience, but couldn't get confirmation for another hour or so, until we
landed.
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
Uncertain
I
felt special that mom said good bye to me and not to my brothers. Probably b/c
she and I were very close and she knew I'd be open to her contact, she knew I
wouldn't think it was just a dream
Did
you become aware of future events?
Yes
I
knew she had probably died.
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
Uncertain
seemed like a separation of consciousness, but not sure. Could have simply
fallen asleep, although not likely.
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
Uncertain
Many
beings, but I couldn't identify them.
Did
you see a light?
Uncertain
I
remember beautiful colors, unearthly colors, but no particular "light".
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes People just say "wow, lucky you. Mom stopped to say goodbye on her way
to heaven."
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes