Patricia F's
ADC
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On a cold December day,
I was in one of my bedrooms which was turned into an office. I was very sad and
missing my husband. When I awoke, I discovered that I was facing my husband, he
had his arms out as to embrace me. He appeared to be in this early thirties,
the prime of his life. He had black wavy hair as he did back then. I could
feel that he was happy, extremely happy to see me. This was so real to me that
I said "from my mind to his, How can you be here with me now, I though you were
dead. Suddenly he disappeared and I was back on the futon, laying on the futon
on my back. I felt the reason he had come to me was to let me know that he was
not in the pain and torment that he was in his final days. He also was at
peace, and he wanted me to realize that there is life after death and that we
will be together again. This experience I hold on to. I am not well, life is a
struggle for me, and he wanted me to just take life as it comes, try to find a
tiny piece of happiness in the time I have left.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
embraced, hugged
around my shoulders
Was
the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
familiar
Was
anything communicated by the touch?
love, peace, don't be
afraid was communicated by touch, made me feel protected and that someone is
watching over me
Is
there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
he appeared young,
fit, healthy, how he looked in this twenties or thirties. He felt happy and
content. His hair was black shiny and wavy, how it looked at that age. When he
passed he was in his early sixties, he had been sick, he was frail, stressed,
and anxious.
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
somewhat transparent
How
much of the deceased did you see?
waist up
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
no, he appeared much
younger about 30 instead of 60 when he passed
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
very healthy. He was
in need of a liver transplant when he died. He had diabetes, a heart problem,
he looked really sick when he died.
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
a couple of
minutes
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
sudden
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
very peaceful,
healthy and happy
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
To me this experience was real. The love that I felt coming from my husband was
the strongest feeling of love and well being that I have ever felt.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
felt a very powerful
love, the kind of love that is not felt on earth. I loved my husband, it was a
wonderful feeling, he was the only person who I felt comfortable with, I cannot
wait until we are together again.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
Feeling of love, worst
part is it lasted so briefly.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did
you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes I now know for sure that the soul leaves the body at death, that life
goes on, that life is a learning experience, I am less materialistic now, try to
do good with what time you have here.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
Felt
happy for a while, then went back into the depression, chronic pain, loneliness,
am glad that I had this experience, life passes quickly and before long we will
be together till eternity.
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
Yes
Did
you see a light?
Yes
a
glowing light around my husbands body
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes They loved to hear what happened. It is something that they think about
when they are in times of trouble. It gives them hope for the future.
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes