Patricia ADC 2651
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It was a week after my husbands death , many electrical
oddities happened which I can explain in another post.
I was lying in bed , on my side drifting off to sleep when I felt my husband
press up against me and put his arms around me.
I
was holding his hand I knew it was him . He entered me slowly , tears were
falling from my eyes I held his hand tightly..
it was incredible , We were ONE.. my heart was
racing I felt electrified.. he started to pull away I grabbed his hand and said
please don’t go , I’m not afraid.. ( I’m crying as I write this , very emotional
experience) he left I got out of bed and I felt shaken and disconnected from the
world.
He wanted me to remember his love.
I say that because we were away at our cabin the night he died.
I was very tired went
bed He came
in later and we had sex .. not the best it felt
rushed and no emotional .. not like him at all. He went out into the living room
and called me .. he was very pale and sweaty and losing consciousness.
He had to be Life-flighted
to a hospital an hour and a half away.
I had to drive and never got to see him alive again.
I KNOW HE CAME TO ME TO SAY GOODBYE AND WANTED ME TO REMEMBER THIS EXPERIENCE
AND NOT THE ONE AT THE CABIN. it worked
Was this experience difficult to express in words?
Yes
The very nature of
the experience , it was deeply loving, sensual and consuming. I had to get out
of bed and didn’t feel part of this world. Very emotional senses heightened.
Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased
without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with
the deceased?
No
Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact
from the deceased?
Yes
Felt his body
pressed against mine and his arms around me .. I held his hand.
Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
Familiar, warm , part of me felt electrified ( my senses )
Was anything communicated by the touch?
Just so much love and caring .. brought me to tears
Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other
source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
NO
Did you see the deceased?
No
Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor
associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
Not
aware of time
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
Gradual , felt him press against me arms around me , a wonderful snuggle that
progressed
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Uncertain
Hard to describe,
our emotions were felt , we were one.. not something
you could analyze it was intense.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
No
How do you currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience
as real or not real:
It was truly a visit
.. I KNOW he was there. I was not fully asleep I was aware of what was happening
as unbelievable as it was I didn’t want him to go.when he left I hit out of bed
.. I had to walk around because felt disconnected and shaken.
Was the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the
experience:
Prior to
the experience I was still having trouble coming to grips with his loss , I
couldn’t live without him. During the experience it was pure love we were
together as we should be I wanted to hold onto him forever.
Was there any emotional healing in any way following the
experience?
Uncertain
Healing took a long,
long time. I had a couple other “dreams” that year .. very short .. knew he was
dead .. happy to see him .. I spoke to him but he never talked back .. I thought
if he just visited me like this once a month I could deal with this .. but that
didn’t happen.
What was the best and worst part of your experience?
Best he was
there worst he was gone
Has your life changed specifically as a result of your
experience?
No
Did you have any
changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
I always feel calm , I don’t feel
alone
Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings
such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?
Uncertain
Understanding is the wrong word ..
left me with more questions.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s).
Have you ever made such a compact?
Yes
We were supposed to
meet at our favorite spot by the river ( at our university)
We made that pact when we were very
young..
he visited me at our
home .. much better!
Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events
during your experience that could be verified later?
Yes
It has to do with the electrical system in my house ..
others staying with me all experienced same thing.
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
I
was overwhelmed , shaken , sad that he left I wanted him to come back.
Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did you have any sense of altered space or time?
Yes
I felt not part of
the world, hard to explain , shaken , a but disoriented , heightened senses
Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge,
universal order and/or purpose?
No
Did you become aware of future events?
No
Did you have any
psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did
not have prior to the experience?
No
Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from
your body?
No
Did you meet or see any other beings other than the
deceased?
No
Did you see a light?
No
Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place
other than the location described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
No
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with
any other researcher or web site?
No
Is
there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
No
just wish he would visit
Were there any associated medications or substances with
the potential to affect the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in
your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the
experience?
No
Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out
of body experience or other spiritual event?
Yes
A long time ago a
high school friend had died in a car crash .. I had a strange Experience I was
so sad I just wanted to die..
one night a had a dream about him ..
I was in a very dark place and I saw him he reached out his hand to me and I
tried to grab it , them my grandfather was there and he yelled No go back . I
My eyes popped open I was very shaky
, sweaty and I couldn’t move..
Years later( in
college)
I had a dream about my friend , it was a beautiful day , I
knew he was dead he asked me if I was happy and I said yes.
That was it!
At the time I was with my husband to
be.
Occasionally when I was young I would dream of family
gatherings .. even the deceased were there
the person talking to them always was the next to
die..
everyone would tell me DONT dream of them!!
Did the questions asked and information you provided
accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?
Yes
Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this
questionnaire.
No .. you give a lot of opportunity to describe what happened.