My mystical experience occurred when I was 13. My grandmother (who had a
prominent part in raising me) visited me in my sleep to say goodbye. I was on a
summer high school vacation in Lac Léman, France. She seemed to be ‘shielding’
me from toes to head, telepathically conveying that there is no reason to be sad
or upset, as what was happening to her is a normal transition - the simplest
natural thing. She showed me the light calmly waiting for her, when she’s ready.
I asked ‘when we are going to be together again?’ She responded ‘oh, many many
years from now.’ I woke up, looked at the time hoping the dream wasn’t true. I
noticed that the three schoolmates with whom I was sharing the room were
sleeping in exactly the same positions when I ‘saw’ them as my grandma appeared
across my bed between a series of half open windows. Also, the morning light was
coming into the room with the same angle, hue and intensity as in the dream. My
grandma approached me in intermittent motion as if she was moving faster than my
mind could grasp (which, perhaps, indicates she had indeed passed into a
different realm). Her communication was telepathically instant while my
question, coming from myself, was in my normal, slower speed. Later that day, I
received a phone-call from home (Athens, Greece) informing of my grandmother’s
sudden passing earlier in the morning – exactly during the time of my dream. Not
sure if this is a 'shared' death experience, but I feel it like a metaphysical
gift as since then I *know* that conscience is alive and can travel after
physical death. This happened in July 1976. I would love to know if there are
other people who had a similar experience and under what name or term this is
categorized.
At
the time of your experience was there an associated life-threatening event?No
Was the experience
difficult to express in words?No
At what time during the
experience were you at your highest level of
consciousness and alertness?All the time.
How did your highest level
of consciousness and alertness during the experience compare to your normal
everyday consciousness and alertness?Normal
consciousness and alertnessMy highest level of consciousness was
normal - the same with normal night dreaming during sleep.
Please compare your vision during the experience to your everyday vision that
you had immediately prior to the time of the experience.
Same.
Please compare your hearing during the experience to your everyday hearing that
you had immediately prior to the time of the experience.Same.
Did you see or hear any earthly events that were occurring during a time that
your consciousness / awareness was apart from your physical / earthly body?No
What emotions did you feel
during the experience?Surprise. Apprehension for what was happening to
me. Worry regarding my grandmother's passing but also a calmness as if an
emotional kinda 'silencer' had tranquilized me, protecting me from grief and
devastation.
Did you pass into or
through a tunnel?YesI remember seeing a white light waiting
for my grandma as if at the end of a tunnel This image was static - I suddenly
found myself there - I did not 'slide', 'moved' or 'passed' into the tunnel. I
just found myself there as in a void and the light was calmly waiting.
Did you see an unearthly
light?YesYes, I saw a white light peacefully
radiating at the end of this void or tunnel. It was clear that the light was
'neutral' towards me and was focused on my grandma calmly waiting for her to
complete her communication with me (to say goodbye and tranquilize or cancel my
grief). I felt that the light was full of wisdom, understanding, aware of
everything and had consented to my grandma's wish.
Did
you seem to encounter a mystical being or presence, or hear an unidentifiable
voice?
No
Did you encounter or
become aware of any beings who previously lived on earth who are described by
name in religions (for example: Jesus, Muhammad, Buddha, etc.)?No
Did
you encounter or become aware of any deceased (or alive) beings?No
Did
you become aware of past events in your life during your experience?No
Did
you seem to enter some other, unearthly world?
No
Did time seem
to speed up or slow down?Time seemed to go faster or slower than usual Feeling my grandma's
communication time was speeded up. Feeling my communication, time was normal.
Did
you suddenly seem to understand everything?
No
Did you reach a boundary
or limiting physical structure?Yes Yes, in the sense that my grandma showed me the
light calmly waiting for her.
Did
you come to a border or point of no return?
No
Did scenes from the
future come to you?No During
your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness
suggesting that there either is (or is not) continued existence after earthly
life (“life after death”)?YesAbsolutely. It was obvious that this was
my grandma's point: that there is no reason for me to be devastated by her
passing, as what was happening to her is a normal transition - the simplest
natural thing. And that we will unite again when my time comes.
During
your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness that God
or a supreme being either does (or does not) exist?YesThe calm white radiant light seemed to
have the compassionate and wise qualities we call God.
During
your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness that you
either did (or did not) exist prior to this lifetime?No
During
your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness that a
mystical universal connection or unity/oneness either does (or does not) exist?UncertainWhen I asked my grandma ‘when we are going
to be together again?’ and she telepathically responded ‘oh, many many years
from now' I sensed (or I imagined) a visual of how this moment would be. My
grandma as a little sun coming towards me that by that time I would be another
little sun. Then, we merge. And so, she takes me within her into that massive
white light of collective knowledge and energy.
During your experience,
did you encounter any specific information / awareness regarding earthly life’s
meaning or purpose?No
During your experience,
did you encounter any specific information / awareness regarding earthly life’s
difficulties, challenges, or hardships?No
During your experience,
did you encounter any specific information / awareness regarding love?YesI felt my grandma's love towards me and
that the white light 'knew' everything.
During your experience,
did you encounter any other specific information / awareness that you have not
shared in other questions that is relevant to living our earthly lives?No
Did you have a sense of
knowing special knowledge or purpose?YesI was aware during the experience that
this was happening to me for the first time and was probably unique, thus my
apprehension. I was aware that my grandmother - when she was alive - had shared
with me that she knew I have a special purpose (which is something that I keep
doubting).
What occurred during your
experience included:Content that was both consistent and not consistent
with the beliefs you had at the time of your experienceI was too young (13 years old). I had not shaped / crystallized beliefs
even though my family background was decently religious. On the other hand since
I remember myself I always felt awkwardly 'connected' with a force for the Good.
Extremely strange.
How accurately do you
remember the experience in comparison to other life events that occurred around
the time of the experience?I remember the experience more accurately than
other life events that occurred around the time of thI remember my experience deeply accurately, shot by shot, I could make it a
short film if I had the means and the time.
Discuss any changes
that might have occurred in your life after your experience:The changes I describe below occurred very
gradually as at the time of the experience I was 13 years old. My
experience directly resulted in:Large changes in my life
Did you have any changes in your values or beliefs after the experience that
occurred as a result of the experience?YesI have grown to become a spiritual person, more compassionate, less
material – although I still have ‘work’ to do on all these.
Do you
have any psychic, non-ordinary or other special gifts after your experience that
you did not have before the experience?YesI remember having a vision from my very
early life - 1 year old or less - without ever understanding its meaning. After
the experience, I seem to have developed a 'connection' with what I call the
Divine or Force for the Good. Although I am not a follower of any organized
religion, when I pray to God I get a response and I am grateful beyond words.
Also, even though I am not a professional songwriter, I have developed an
instant composer's gift (musical). Once I know a situation, characters, plot,
etc. I can compose the song. Twice in my life, under times of extreme stress, I
had dreams/visions where I heard music and seen enlightened beings. I was able
to reproduce the music. Are there one or several parts of your experience
that are especially meaningful or significant to you?This experience, through time, has ignited my humanity and creativity. I am
not perfect but I try to be a decent person.
Have you ever shared this experience with others?YesWith my inner circle of relatives back in
1976 and with a few very close friends after that. They just listened. No
evident judgement, influence or response.
Did you have any knowledge
of near death experience (NDE) prior to your experience?No
What did you believe about
the reality of your experience shortly (days to weeks) after it happened:Experience was definitely realWith surprise and apprehension. After
receiving a phone call confirming my grandmother's passing (on the same day as
my experience), i did end up alone in a narrow toilet in the French College that
was hosting us, crying my heart out. Yes, the solace of the experience was there
for me to grasp (and I did that), but at the same time the pain of my
grandmother's loss was overwhelming. She was like a mother to me.
What do you believe about
the reality of your experience at the current time:Experience was definitely realI know the experience was real right after
the phone call from home (Athens, Greece) informing me of my grandmother's
passing - exactly at the time of my vivid dream / vision.
Have your relationships
changed specifically as a result of your experience?YesRelationships with material people or users have broken. As I was growing
older, my narrative vision has gradually acquired a 'metaphysical' point of view
(close to magic realism). My film projects currently in development are plots
about compassion, courage and humanistic issues. One project is a musical about
Solace on the theme of a different realm. Another project is about balance
(restoring the balance) against what I call the evil spirit of high excess.
Thus, my experience was my original impulse for all of these.
Have your religious
beliefs/spiritual practices changed specifically as a result of your experience?YesBy growing older I stopped being a blind follower of the Greek-Orthodox
denomination. I do believe in God, it's his 'club' that I have problems with. I
mean those of the clergy that use their position for power and control. I do
love the teachings of Jesus (love your fellow man) and I find they align with
the higher truth and the golden rule that is found in the core of all the great
religions. The rest, Paul's epistles, the hymns, etc., I think, it is man-made
literature. in my opinion, if one needs to find God the way passes through the
fellow man.
At
any time in your life, has anything ever reproduced any part of the experience?No
Is there anything else
that you would like to add about your experience?Not sure if I understand completely the term 'reproduced'
within this context but I can share that other visions / connections I had
always make me think of this fundamental experience. It feels as if a divine
secret has been shared with me. At this point, allow me to mention that I never
found refuge in psychic or parapsychology groups, classes, etc. One time (1982)
the father of a friend who was practicing parapsychology and astrology asked me
to meditate with him and put his hands on my forehead as if going to trance.
Suddenly, he stopped and said that my 'third eye' was open. He wandered what
metaphysical experience I had. I said 'nothing' as I didn't feel I could trust
the man. However, my mind went back to the experience I have been narrating to
you here.
Did
the questions asked and information that you provided accurately and
comprehensively describe your experience?YesAll the questions were aiming to accuracy
and to form a complete image. The questionnaire was well structured and way
beyond me.What could a national organization with an interest in near
death experience (NDE) do that would be of interest to you?
There may be conferences and actions that you do without me knowing, thus I am a
little reserved in proposing. As a visual storyteller, I would love to see
films, documentaries and quality TV series embracing diverse NDE experiences.
Are there any other questions that
we could ask to help you communicate your experience?As my experience was not a clear personal NDE but
a vision/dream or a 'shared' NDE of my grandmother's passing, I would suggest
that you could provide a section for similar accounts. Having said that, you may
already have taken care of this - it's just me that I haven't realized. Thank
you for giving me the opportunity to share my experience. My apologies if I
expanded with unnecessary information.