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My husband passed away
4 months ago. We had an amazing marriage for almost 30 years but I never dream
about him, except for only once or twice since the accident. In However, I have
had 4 or 5 times a weird experience, which starts always in the same way. I am
lying in bed, waiting for sleep. I'm awake as I can clearly remember the time on
the clock afterwards. And then, I fall in a kind of sleep/awake state. I can
clearly think, I know that I am lying in bed and I'm aware of the position of my
body under the blankets. I don't see him in my dream, it's not a visual
experience. It's a physical one. I can feel him hugging me through the blankets.
The last time I said to him "hold me" and he did it. I said again "hold me
tight" and I could feel his arms trying to push harder through the blankets. It
felt like a very "familiar" touch, I simply knew it was him! And then I wake up
and the feeling of physical contact immediately vanishes. The first three of
four times I thought it was just my imagination, but since the last time, about
10 days ago, I'm not so sure that it is only a dream or a kind of
hallucination. If it was a dream why should I feel the pressure through the
blankets? I would probably feel the contact of his hand directly on my skin, but
it was so clear that the blankets were an obstacle. This detail made the
experience so real!
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
hugging through the
blankets
Was
the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
familiar
Was
anything communicated by the touch?
a feeling of sadness
Is
there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no I was alone in an
empty bedroom at night
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
just a few
minutes. I could remember reading the time on the clock on the bedside table
before the experience and I could see that it was only a few minutes later when
I woke up
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
Sudden
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Sadness, frustration
for what happened to me and his children because of his death
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was probably
real
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
Very emotional to have
contact with him.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Uncertain
A little, tiny hope
that one day I will see him again.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
I
hoped he would be happy but I can feel his sadness because he had to leave us
alone. It seems he can not accept that just like us.
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Is
there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
I
would like to be contacted by people who had similar experiences
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes