Michael
H's
ADC
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I was sitting in my living room watching the news at approximately 8:45 in the morning, I had finished eating breakfast, and was flipping through the channels on the TV. In my living room were several personal items from my parents house, their effects were being divided up as their estate was being liquidated to pay for their nursing home bills. My mothers sewing basket was 3 feet in front of me. It was constructed like a picnic basket with large handles folded on top of each other. Suddenly one of the handles moved from the folded over position up in the air and gently over all the way
to the bottom of the basket. There was no air movement, no one had touched it for days. I also had a feeling of a presence of some one in the room, and at the same time I also looked up at my fathers clock which was sitting on the fireplace mantle. I
believe that the
presence I felt was looking at it and at me, I then felt an overwhelming
presence of my Father. It scared me at first, and then I figured that it wasn't
anything but my imagination and went on watching television. Later that after
noon I received a phone message telling me of my Fathers passing in the early
hours of that morning. After the phone message I am convinced that my Father
came by to see me.
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
Yes
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
Approximately 20
- to 30 seconds
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
no
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Uncertain
I didn't know who it
was at first, however after a couple of seconds I had an overwhelming thought
of my father
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
no
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was probably
real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I realize that the handle on the basket that I saw move, could have some how
moved as a result of some natural tension based on its construction, however the
overwhelming feeling of my father that I felt at the time it happened and not
knowing of his passing, at the time it happened, make me feel that it was his
spirit making a visit on his way to where ever you go when you pass on
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in
detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
It was very scary or
surreal at first, and then I felt my fathers presence, I then felt a calming
sense of well being, then after it happened I felt odd, I questioned what I
had just seen,
and then I dismissed
it as some strange coincidence
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Uncertain
I did not feel
anything profound until six hours later hearing of my fathers death, it hit me
like a ton of bricks
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
If I had known my
Father had passed when this happened I would have spoken to him as it happened
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
I seem calmer in
general, I do not seem to worry as much about day to day difficulties as much, I
feel that I now know something very profound
Did
you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes Firmly believe in some kind of existence after death
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
I
dismissed it as some strange thing or odd coincidence
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
Yes
I
firmly believe there is some kind of existence after death and it is good, and
that my father is alright, he was a non believer in the existence of God and of
any afterlife
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes Son was very skeptical, girl friend very supportive and believes it was
my Father saying good by
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
Uncertain
I
had a heart attack 8 years ago. I remember seeing a light in a tunnel like
situation , however that was all I remember, nothing profound or life changing
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes