Michael A's
ADC
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Several
times thought the next year late at night I could smell her but it was only for
a minute or two but I knew she was visiting me! My father had three daylight
visits where she would tell him everything would be Okay! She was fully clothed
and looked completely normal when this happened. It shook him up
because he
truly thought once you died you were gone, till you meet again on the other
side. I don't think she visited me in this manner for fear I would try to join
her and I still had three kids to raise.
Was this experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did
you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the
deceased?
Yes
What smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
Whatever scent
she had through life is what I smelled only stronger than when she was here.
Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
see above
Was anything communicated by the smell?
No
Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor
was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your
experience?
No I would get
up and hunt for her perfume or lotion and it was always in a closet in another
room.
How
long did the experience last?
About a
year.
Was
the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
I don't
remember when it ended but it had to be about the time I started dating!
How
do you currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real
or not real:
I seen it,
experienced it and lived through it.
Was the experience dream like in any way?
No
What
was the best and worst part of your experience?
Not a day goes
by that I don't think of her. Miss her and hope that she will be waiting for me.
Has
your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
I don't have
the drive in business as I did before.
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes,
The
continuity of life and the impact of all relationships.
What
emotions did you feel during the experience?
Somewhat less
sadness!
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
Yes,
During
the event I felt a peace as this was all supposed to happen. That we had agreed
to it before.
Did
you become aware of future events?
Yes
Two
months before her death I awoke at 2:00 a.m. actually hollering at her go ahead
and leave me and see how fast I replace you! I was real mad at her and she was
still sleeping. I didn't think of this until she was gone.
Have
you shared this experience with others?
Yes,
Some with unbelief others with interest and those who later lost loved ones
thank me for sharing the story.
Have
you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or
web site?
No
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes