Melanie K's
ADC
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Just got in from work
(I was working/living in Israel at the time). Was sharing a hostel with friends,
just been chatting whilst laying in our beds, then we just relaxed. I was just
looking at nothing much, I remember vaguely looking at a big clock in the room
then all of a sudden I felt/sensed my granddad there in front of me, about 3
meters away by the clock, I smelt his house (although I have a very poor sense
of smell), he was suddenly darting around the room I felt saying 'what has
happened to me?','what's happening'. He was panicking. I could feel his thoughts
and emotions, we could communicate through our minds. I instantly knew he'd just
died and told him through my head that he wasn't to worry, he had just died. I
told him that everybody was waiting for him on the other side and go towards the
light, I told him he needed to move on and not to be afraid I just didn't know
what else to say, I wanted him to calm down and give him some words of advice on
what to do). He then just disappeared, although I couldn't 'see' him, I knew
where he was in the room before he 'went'. I felt quite comforted. I then turned
round to my friend and told her my granddad had just died and he was just here
in the room in front of me. Next day, rang mum in the UK because of this, she
said he had died the day before. I knew he was ill but not on his death bed, we
weren't even close! He died the same time this happened to when working out the
time difference. Sorry I can't put this into words easy.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
Yes
Knowing he was
suddenly there in front of me, knew where he was in the room but couldn't
physically see him, talking with him through my mind and feeling his feelings
and thoughts...weird!
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
Yes
What
smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
His house which I'D
never really noticed before which is strange as I have a very poor sense of
smell (inherited)
Was
the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
His house
Was
anything communicated by the smell?
No
Is
there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any
other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
No!!!
How long did the
experience last?
About a minute
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
slightly gradual
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
This was the
weirdest bit......yes I could sense his moods and emotions SO well, we
communicated through the head, could feel exactly what he was feeling and
emotions.....really overwhelmingly.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
That he had just
died.
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
It was overwhelming, rang my mum in the UK the next day because of this, he had
died the same time in the UK.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
Took it as just
'natural', wanted to calm him down. But it wasn't scary or anything just a
natural occurrence.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
No
Did the experience
give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Uncertain
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
No
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
Uncertain
What emotions
did you feel during the experience?
Didn't, wasn't really
thinking of a lot, just casually chatting to friends whilst laying on my bed in
hostel.
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did you have any
sense of altered space or time?
No
Did you have a
sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
No
Did you become
aware of future events?
No
Did you have any
psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did
not have prior to the experience?
N0 comment
Did you experience
a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did you meet or see
any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did you see a
light?
No
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
Have you shared this
experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
Uncertain
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
Yes
Out of body
experience I remember vividly still(26 years ago)
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Uncertain
It's just hard for
me to put my experience into words.