Marian R's
ADC
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She was kind of solid but not real solid. I could see through her but she was completely transparent either. When I sat up and looked at her, she said, "I just wanted to tell you myself that I died." I didn't say anything, I just kind of looked at her. She disappeared just as suddenly as she came.
I might
have thought I was dreaming but I was still wide awake after she was gone. I
later learned that her mother had the same experience the same night. My niece
called me the next day to tell me that she had died.
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the deceased or
hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what
you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
Marla spoke very plainly and told
me that she wanted to tell me herself that she died.
Did the voice or
sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not
hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?
Definitely external.
If you heard a
voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the
deceased made when they were alive?
An exact match.
Is there any
possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
No.
Was there any
possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
No.
Did you feel a touch or
experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
She touched my foot to wake me
up so she could talk to me.
Was the touch
familiar or unfamiliar?
We were not really in the habit of touching each other. Not even to give hugs.
Was anything
communicated by the touch?
No.
Is there any
possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
No.
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes, She
looked exactly as she had the last time I had seen her.
How clearly did
the deceased appear?
Sort of solid and sort of
transparent, but not quite either one.
How much of the
deceased did you see?
top half
Did the deceased appear or not
appear to be the age at which they died?
yes. Same age. She looked the
same.
How healthy did
the deceased appear to be?
Very healthy. She had many health
problems when alive and seem well and happy when she contacted me after her
death.
Is there any
possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
No.
How long did the experience
last?
Just a few seconds.
Was the beginning and end of
the experience gradual or more sudden?
Very sudden. As soon as I
felt the touch on my foot, I woke up and as soon as she said what she wanted to
say she disappeared just as suddenly. All at once, in an instant.
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
Yes
I could tell that she was
relieved and in good spirits despite her death.
Did the deceased give you
information you did not previously know?
Yes. I did not know that
she had died.
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Please explain
why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:
I feel the experience was real
because I was not told until the next day that she died.
Was the
experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
I only recall being somewhat
surprised. I did not feel afraid, elated, happy, or any other particular
feeling.
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
No
Since I was as of yet unaware
that she had died I did not have any particular emotion to heal.
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
There is no best and/or worst part
of the experience.
What other attitudes and
beliefs about your experience do you currently have?
No particular attitude
My daughter died on Nov. 4, 2002, and it has changed my entire perspective and
many of my beliefs. I have not had an ADC from my daughter but would be
grateful for one.
Did you observe or hear
anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
Yes
She told me that she wanted to
tell me herself that she died. I learned the next day that she had died. I
also learned that her mother had the same experience around the same time.
What emotions did you feel
during the experience?
Surprise.
Have you shared this
experience with others?
Yes, Surprise, because her
mother had the same experience the same night around the same time, (at least
that is what I was told).
Have you shared this
experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
Yes, griefnet.
Is there anything else you
would like to add regarding your experience?
No.
Were there any associated
medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No, No alcohol or drugs of any
kind, legal or otherwise.
Did you ever in your life have
a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual
event?
Yes
I had one out of body
experience when I was about 24 years old. I was happy and floating until I
realizes that if I was out of my body I was no longer alive. I thought of my 2
small children and rushed back into my body. When I came to, my husband told me
that he thought I died.