Lynette S's
ADC
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Most
experiences were for me -like a video camera playing film on TV of events
through my husband's eyes filled with his emotions in my head -I understood what
he was telling me completely. When my brother arrived he showed me where
they had gone diving and what they had seen through his eyes -I became the diver
-like I was inside my husband
Background
Information:
Date of
experience:
week
after death until burial
Length of time between death
of deceased and your experience:
24 hours
Was the date of the
experience significant in any way?
day after he had died suddenly
General geographic location
of experience:
Nicosia
Cyprus
Details of location of
experience and your activity at the time of experience:
Lying on bed in darkness crying
not asleep
Degree of bereavement for
deceased immediately prior to the experience:
Severe sadness and/or grief
feelings
Degree of alertness
immediately prior to experience:
Fully alert
After your experience, did
you consider the contents of your experience:
Wonderful
Have you had multiple
experiences? Yes
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Was this experience difficult
to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense an
awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling
or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the deceased or
hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what you
heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
I could hear his voice in my head
telling me things after he had shown me visually -it was like he lost power to
communicate visually and went to his voice he knew I would have doubted the
voice initially)
Did the voice or
sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not
hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?
sense of knowing -internal
If you heard a
voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the
deceased made when they were alive?
the same
Is there any
possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
no
Was there any
possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
no
Did you feel a touch or
experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
like he was beside me touching
and holding me
Was the touch
familiar or unfamiliar?
familiar
Was anything
communicated by the touch?
love
Is there any
possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
no
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
as described above-like a video
camera of him
How clearly did
the deceased appear?
solid like himself
How much of the
deceased did you see?
all
Did the deceased
appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
yes
How healthy did
the deceased appear to be?
very healthy -normal Panos
Is there any
possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
np
Did you smell a distinct
smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the experience
last?
many hours -got shorter
Was the beginning and end of
the experience gradual or more sudden?
gradual beginning and end
like he had to gain power and lost it again
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Very angry as he had been
taking cholesterol tablets and wanted me to know he had been doing everything
possible as doc came to my house and accused him of being responsible for his
own death
Did the deceased give you
information you did not previously know?
yes-he showed me getting
the pills out of his football bag (which I later found )and details of diving
experience with my brother I hadn't known before
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Was the experience
dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
just so happy Panos could see what
was happening and that his spirit lived on
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
helped me dealing with the
extreme loss -helps me now as very early days yet
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
the knowledge Panos is ok -the
worst the reality of the loss
Has your life changed
specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
everything
sense that there is a plan to everything and I will be guided
What other attitudes and
beliefs about your experience do you currently have?
Life-changing
Did the
experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife,
God, etc.?
Yes belief
in god and afterlife
Death
Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
No
What
emotions did you feel during the experience?
extreme sadness
as Panos was not here but extreme joy he still lived on
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
Most
experiences were for me - like a video camera playing film on TV of events
through my husband's eyes filled with his emotions- but one time my parents were
with me and my mum had problem with her toe - it needed stitching I had
forgotten to make appointment and my exact toe went white everybody saw it - I
didn't as if Panos communicating and telling me to make APPOINTMENT
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
Yes
kind
of felling of not being alive after - sense of coming back to earth
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
Yes
life
is about love and what you do for other people
Did
you become aware of future events?
Yes
sense of support and security all would be well
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
Yes
sense
of seeing the world differently; and realization both me and Panos saw like this
before he died but didn't recognize it
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
Yes
like a spiritual meeting
Did you
meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
Yes
Have
you shared this experience with others?
Yes some
supportive, most thought it was grief
Have
you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or
web site?
No
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
Yes
links
with other people coming to me to answer questions or problems I had-like they
were being sent - signs in the living
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
Yes
car
crash saw my life flash before me and then came to without a scratch
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes