Louise B's
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Early in the morning, just before the time I normally wake up my deceased mother spontaneously appeared in my vision, although my eyes were shut and I was sleeping, it became apparent immediately I was lucid and I recognized my mother's sudden appearance. It lasted only second, long enough to look at her closely and remember making sure it was my mother - I was in shock and the visitation caused me to awaken almost immediately. I jumped from my bed in gratitude and began thanking my mother and God for this amazing experienced. My mother's face was very close to mine and I only saw her head, neck, upper shoulders. She looked as she did in the last year of her life. Although sick, she was an attractive woman who kept herself up. She did not speak to me, she seemed to be gazing at me, possibly communicating with her eyes, which were watching me intensely.
After her passing, I felt like an orphan and lost with little other support. She always called me daily. She was my best friend.
Now I am sick and it is my belief she came to me to show me our spiritual being, consciousness, or soul does survive the physical death. At the time of her appearance I was really sick and did not know it. This past February I was hospitalized after entering the ER with a serious condition for which little can be done. Believe my mother must have know that and that is why she made the effort. After her death, I began reading lots of spiritual books about life after death, survival of the soul.
To this day I recall it
so well; the experience was very real and yet other worldly - she appeared to be
in another dimension, allowing me to see that, rather than appearing in mine.
The most unusual thing, which makes me feel that way, was she appeared in an
almost sepia color, sort of like the old negatives, but nothing was blurred, the
lines of her face were crisp. Rather than feeling she was here, I felt I was
there because it did appear supernatural.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
She was not smiling,
it seemed almost like old photographs when people didn't smile on purpose. She
was just looking at me - she just let herself be seen - it was over in moments,
but I was ludic enough to realize I was asleep and my mother woke me up. She
looked as she did the last year of her life, before she got really sick. She
looked beautiful.
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
somewhat transparent, a
sepia color made it seem that way, but she was also solid too
How
much of the deceased did you see?
just her head and neck
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
Appeared the age
when she passed on.
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
Healthier than when I
last saw her. She seem strong, however, old.
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No, I live alone.
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
Sudden -
suddenly appearing and the shock of it caused me to wake up, but it was already
seared in my brain and seems like it happened yesterday - very powerful.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
She seemed serious,
concerned. She was not smiling.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
No.
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I've spent a lot of time with my mother and it seemed like her energy and
appearance and there was a mental connection, a recognition. I know it was my
mother and I know she went to a great deal of effort to make it make to help me
for I would soon need courage and need to know without doubt that the soul
survives
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
Awe, grateful, happy.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
My mother was in a
great deal of pain at the end and clinging to life and a bit agitated with
everyone around her. She was not herself, saying threatening things
progressively as she came closer to death. It was coming from fear but very
upsetting to witness. She was grasping, desperate, she had no peace - this
started my quest for more information. I've prayed for her soul, that it would
call out for help, go towards the light. Shocking, because she was very
religious but it was in vain at the end and did not serve her well. She was on
morphine but I do not believe she was given a strong enough dose. It was a
horrible death and I was sent home by hospice to get some sleep( she was in a
nursing home after hospitalization, too sick to be home) and it was then that
she left her body; in the middle of the night I got the call and came back and
closed her eyes. I've had terrible guilt about not staying over, being with
her, but it would have been impossible for me to stay up 234 hours - my brother
had seen her the week before to say goodbye, he was on the west coast, my father
was in the beginning stages of Alzheimer's and behaving badly - so I was
exhausted and went. The experience taught me a lot about forgiveness.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
The best was getting to
see my mother once more; the worst was that she wasn't smiling. I hope she is
happy. I've come to feel it is because she knows I am ill and there is
suffering ahead for me, which would make her sad.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
It has affected
my daily life, relationships, I have less fear and more peace. I want to take
the high road, I pray for all whom I love and for others in need and give thanks
for each new day. Colors seem brighter, I notice the trees, nature, stop and
smell the roses. I live in the moment far more. I believe that everything that
comes serves a higher purpose for growth and i do not fight with what comes. I
am preparing myself to have a peaceful death after seeing my mother become so
frightened.
Did you have
any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
I knew without doubt my mother, her spirit, that which she always was, was still
and felt she cared deeply for me to make the effort to appear to me.
Did the experience
give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Yes
I now know it is true that we are spiritual beings having a human experience. i
know I am not my body or my thoughts and that there is much spiritual guidance
and love always with me. I listen to my own intuition more and feel less
concerned with the material things, focus on the inner rather than the problems
of the world. I have learned much from reading the most exceptional accounts of
Near Death Experiencers, those who bring back Truth that resonate deeply within.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
Yes
More in jest, but my
mother and I did discuss her becoming an angle to me, that I would welcome her
guidance.
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
No
What emotions
did you feel during the experience?
I was happy but crying,
think I even feel to my knees. I felt very, very blessed to have had the
experienced. I had no doubt whatsoever, from the beginning my mother had
visited me.
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did you have any
sense of altered space or time?
Yes
I was at first in a
lucid state not fully conscious, her sudden appearance, without dialogue, or
animation, or a dream story that provided a part for her - it was sudden without
memories of anything beforehand. Unconscious and then conscious of her being
there - she woke me up but I realized I had been asleep and was still
semi-conscious. After realizing what had happened I studied her face and said
to myself :that's my mother." The I woke up.
Did you have a
sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
No
Did you become
aware of future events?
No
Did you have any
psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did
not have prior to the experience?
No
Did you experience
a separation of your consciousness from your body?
Uncertain
Because of the
background and the feeling of her not being on this earth, it had the feeling of
a different realm which I could see into, but mostly the focus was her face,
which was very close, face-to-face positioning.
Did you meet or see
any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did you see a
light?
No
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
My friends are like minded and do not disbelieve my experience. I have also
shared it in two group meetings. No one questioned me but listened with
interest.
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
No
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
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