Lori's
ADC
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I was lying in bed
reading, and I fell into a very light sleep, the kind of sleep where you're
halfway between sleep and wakefulness. I started dreaming, in which I was in my
parents home. I wandered upstairs to their bedroom, where I saw my brother and
dad on the bed playing cards. Even in the dream state I knew my father was not
alive. I remember thinking "my dad is here". I came over to the bed behind him
to give him a hug, and at that moment I woke from the dream. At that exact
moment I simultaneously felt him hugging me. I could feel the hug and the
warmth. I also heard VERY clear and distinctly in my right ear him say "I love
you". I didn't say it out loud but thought "I love you too dad". The hug lasted
about a minute or so and slowly the pressure of the hug released.
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
I heard very
clearly in my right ear the words "I love you"
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
The voice was definitely external...it was my dad's voice
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
Similar...and it was
crisp and clear
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No. I was alone at the
time.
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
It felt like a hug,
or a pressure. I also felt warmth' like a body heat you feel while being hugged.
Was
the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
Familiar
Was
anything communicated by the touch?
Not specifically
Is
there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
About 2 or 3
minutes total
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
The beginning
was more sudden, but the end was gradual.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
I felt loved and a
sense of calm wash over me.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
No
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
Hard to explain, but I just "know".
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
Yes
The experience at
first started in a dream during a very light sleep state. This is where my dad
appeared, but I was definitely awake and alert when I felt him hug me and heard
his voice.
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I immediately felt a
wave of calm and unconditional love wash over me.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I was close to my
dad and have had a hard time coping with his death. This was comforting and
makes me feel that he is still with me.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
The best part was the
sense of peace I felt afterwards, and also the feeling that I got to have an
experience with my dad. The worst part is only that it leaves me wanting more
time with him.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
No
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes It has strengthened my belief in life after death.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
I
was grateful and relaxed.
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
No
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
Yes
During the beginning of my experience I was dreaming, and the dream took place
at my parents home. The second part of my experience I was in my own home.
Have you shared this experience with others?
No
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes