Lora C's
ADC
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ONE NIGHT I WENT TO SLEEP AND GRANDMA CAME TO ME IN A DREAM... SHE TOOK ME SHOPPING AND WAS DRIVING A CAR (GRANDMA NEVER DROVE A CAR) SHE TOOK ME OUT TO LUNCH AND WE HAD A WONDERFUL TIME AND REALLY HAD A WONDERFUL AFTERNOON. SUDDENLY WE WERE IN FRONT OF MY HOME AND GRANDMA STOPPED THE CAR AND LOOKED AT ME AND SAID,
"HONEY I HAD TO WORK ALL MY LIFE WE NEVER GOT A CHANCE TO DO THESE THINGS AND I WOULD HAVE LOVED TO BUT COULDN'T. I CAME TO TELL YOU I LOVE YOU." SHE KISSED ME AND SAID, "BYE SWEETIE." I REMEMBER WHISPERING AS I WAS WAKING UP "BYE GRANDMA, I LOVE YOU TOO."
Background Information:
Date of experience: CANT REMEMBER ABOUT TEN YEARS AGO
Length of time between death of deceased and your
experience:
SOON AFTER GRANDMA DEATH
Degree of bereavement for deceased immediately prior to the
experience:
Slight sadness and/or grief
feelings
Degree of alertness immediately prior to experience
(choose best response):
Fully alert
After your experience, did you consider the contents of your experience: Wonderful
Have you had multiple experiences?
Yes
, ABOUT TEN
Was the kind of experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear
the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Did the
voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or
did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
IT WAS IN A DREAM
Did you feel
a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
SHE KISSED ME GOOD BYE IN A
DREAM
Did you
smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the
deceased?
No
How long did
the experience last?
UNKNOWN IT WAS A DREAM
Could you
sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
I FELT LOVED
Did the
deceased give you information you did not previously know?
YES THAT SHE LOVED ME
Your beliefs
immediately prior to the experience regarding your fear of
death.
Not fearful
Your beliefs
currently regarding your fear of death.
Not fearful
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
What did you
feel (while awake) immediately prior to your experience?
No particular emotion
Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience: IT WAS LIKE A MOVIE I WAS IN IT WE WENT PLACES AND DID THINGS AND I WAS JUST THERE. I DIDN'T NOT SEE GRANDMA BUT I FELT HER PRESENCE AND KNEW I WAS WITH HER
Was there
any emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes WHAT SHE DID FOR ME SHOWED SHE DID LOVE ME AND I WANTED TO
SAY I LOVED HER TOO
What was the
best and worst part of your experience?
BEST PART WAS WHEN SHE SAID, I
LOVE YOU
What emotions did you experience following your experience? AT THE END OF THE DREAM I FELT LOVED AND KNEW SHE LOVED ME AND I DIDN'T KNOW THAT BEFORE HAND
Have you
shared this experience with others?
Yes
I TOLD MY MOM AND SHE SAID GOOD I KNOW NOW SHE IS WATCHING OVER US
Have you
shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web
site?
No
Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience? Yes