Lora's
ADC
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my dad came to visit me
and my sister. First he spent some time with us together and we had a great
time. Then he spent time with my sister. Then he spent time with me. I greatly
enjoyed my time with him. After some time with me, he then said, I have to go. I
started to cry and asked him, cant you come back (to earth) and be with me? Cant
you go back to the day of the accident and redo that day and stay here? (this is
odd b/c he died of a rare blood clot disease, three weeks in hospital, not in a
sudden accident so I am not sure why I asked him this question?) He said no I am
happy where I am. I began to cry a lot and grabbed at his shirt as he drifted
away, upwards towards heaven. He gently removed my hand and released it so I
wasn't holding on to his shirt anymore. He then said again, I am really happy
where I am. I lowered my head, sobbing, and nodded b/c I understood that he was
truly happy where he was and that was more important than coming back to be with
me. Right then I suddenly woke up. I woke up thinking wow...why am I dreaming of
my dad like that since he has been gone now 15 years? The dream made me happy
and peaceful and made me realize there is life after death and made me think of
God and be happy with God. maybe feeling more comforted?
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
we spoke, I hung
out with him. He hung out and spent some time with me and my sister (my sister
is still alive). I heard his voice, touched his shirt, saw his face, felt his
presence...just like he was here, sitting right next to me. It felt so real,
kind of freaked me out b/c it felt so real.
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
he talked to me
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
it was my dad's voice
exactly
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no, I live alone and no
one is around me when I am sleeping
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
no sober going
to bed, no wine or sleep aids
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
I touched his shirt
as he was going back to heaven. I wanted him to stay so I grabbed his shirt.
Was
the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
felt like a shirt
Was
anything communicated by the touch?
he gently pushed my
hand away from grabbing his shirt so he could continue to go upwards to heaven
to leave me.
Is
there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
he looked like he
did about 10 yrs prior to passing away
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
solid as a real person
standing right next to me
How
much of the deceased did you see?
I saw all of him, I
didn't notice any part of him not appearing
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
about ten years
younger
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
very healthy
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
not that I am aware
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
uhmmmm I was
dreaming so who knows? let me tell you. There was enough time for him to hang
out with me and my sister together, then he went and hung out with her without
me (I have no idea what I was doing when they were together, I just knew he was
with her alone for awhile) then he was with me...it seemed like a long time
...an afternoon type time span?
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
all the same
time feeling going on...nothing rushed or slowed down at all...normal time
feeling as if I was awake
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
when he was telling
me he was happy....I felt his happiness and knew it was extreme happiness. when
I was with him, hanging out, we were both happy, laughing, talking, smiling...we
were both happy. but when I asked him to stay and he said no b/c he was happy
where he was at now...he was way way way happy. can't describe it but he was
really happy
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
that he was
happy...I have never dreamed about my dad before and he's been gone 15 yrs. My
mom has been gone not quite two years and I haven't dreamed of her at all. My
aunt (my moms sister) has been gone seven years from breast cancer and I had a
dream with her in it about six months ago and one year ago.
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was probably
real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
well I was dreaming so how do I know if my dad came to me in a dream? why would
he do that? why would I beg him to come back to earth? why would he chose now to
come back to me? why would I chose now to dream of him?
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in
detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I have been looking for
a job since august of last year and its february now. I have used up almost all
of my savings account and I cant get any job interviews. I am scared I wont get
a job ever again and I have been crying a lot lately and have been super duper
stressed about money. Even to the point of what is life all about? is it even
worth it?
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
yes I have been
applying for more jobs and trying to take it day by day and not get so sad and
overwhelmed by having no money or job. I am still crying every day but not as
much as before the dream.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
why did I want my dad
to come back to earth? why would I ask him that? it appears to be a pretty
selfish concept that would only benefit me and not him...I understand he is
happy but not sure why I would ask him to come back to earth b/c I missed him?
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
trying to keep
it together and not be sad or feeling like whats the point of living
Did you have
any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
I now know people can be really really happy after they die
Did the experience
give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Yes
I totally 100% believe my dad is happy in whatever his afterlife is now
I wasn't really worried
if he was happy prior to the dream, so its odd I dreamed this, but now I am
convinced he is happy.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
No
What emotions
did you feel during the experience?
in a weird way, more
peaceful and happy and I immediately now am thinking more of God and feeling
God's love. my cousin said my dad is my guardian angel and he came to visit me
and comfort me. But I really don't feel that or believe that? not sure how I
feel about that sort of thing but I swear my dad visited me in my dream the
other night.
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did you have any
sense of altered space or time?
No
Did you have a
sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
No
Did you become
aware of future events?
No
Did you have any
psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did
not have prior to the experience?
No
Did you experience
a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did you meet or see
any other beings other than the deceased?
Yes
my younger sister
was in my dream too
Did you see a
light?
No
Did any part of
your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described
above?
No
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
my cousin said cool! and she said that my dad was my guardian angel and he was
comforting me
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Is there anything
else you would like to add regarding your experience?
I have a lot of dreams
that involve other people that are strangers to me. a lot of times, I will see
my dream come true on the news, like some sort of a news event. I do try to tell
people my dreams so when they come true I can say, remember when I dreamed
that....people get freaked out and its sort of cool. The sad part is, when I
dream of other people they are being murdered and since I don't know they
usually I cannot tell them or warn them. Only one time did I dream of my friends
death, one week prior, I told my co workers and one week later her son murdered
her exactly as I said it in my dream. Down to the tiniest detail. If my dreams
are really graphic I don't tell anyone now. b/c it freaks ppl out.
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
Yes
yes I dream of
peoples deaths, usually strangers (except one time). and I have de ja vous ALL
the TIME. I have had that since I was very very young.
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
fine, I wish we got
feedback on our dream
Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire. feedback would be nice ...I have done dream analysis but its been pretty unproductive in information