Loni A's
ADC
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My mom
made it through the surgery, remarried a wonderful man, moved back to Florida
(just as she'd always wanted to do) and then passed away about 2 1/2 years
later.
Background
Information:
Date of
experience:
May of 1989
Length of time between death of deceased and your experience:
About 6 months
I believe
Was the date of the experience significant in any way?
Yes,
my mom (her daughter) was going to have surgery for cancer within the next
couple of days.
General geographic location of experience:
Bedford Ohio
Details of location of experience and your activity at the time of experience:
Sleeping
Degree of bereavement for deceased immediately prior to the experience:
Slight
sadness and/or grief feelings
Degree of alertness immediately prior to experience:
Fully
alert
After your experience, did you consider the contents of your experience:
Wonderful
Have you had multiple experiences?
Yes At least 2
Was
this experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did
you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing,
hearing, feeling or smelling them?
No
Did
you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was
communicated:
As described
above, I heard my grandmothers voice over a phone in a dream. She had a very
distictive voice.
Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of
you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of
knowing what was communicated?
Came throught
the phone in the dream
If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the
voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?
Exactly her
voice.
Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source
present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the
experience?
no
Did
you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the
deceased?
No
Did
you see the deceased?
No
Did
you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the
deceased?
No
How
long did the experience last?
About 5
minutes, it was a pretty long conversation
Was
the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
sudden -
I woke up as soon as the dream was over.
Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
I
felt her mood was very motherly
Did
the deceased give you information you did not previously know?
Yes as
listed above, she gave me information about my mom and that she would survive
her current condition but would be gone from us within just a few years. The
dream was in May of 1989 and my Mom passed away in January of 1991.
Did
you believe in ADCs prior to your experience?
Believed it
probably could happen
Do you believe
in ADCs now?
Absolutely
Did you believe
in an afterlife prior to your experience?
Believed it
probably could happen
Do you now
believe in an afterlife?Absolutely
Did you believe
in God or a Supreme Being prior to your experience?
Believed God
probably exists
Do you now
believe in God or a Supreme Being?
Absolutely
Were you afraid
of death before your experience?
Slightly
fearful
Are you afraid
of death now?
Not fearful
How
do you currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real
or not real:
The
conversation was just so real that it couldn't have been just a dream
Was the experience dream like in any way?
Yes
It
was in a dream setting
What
did you feel (while awake) immediately prior to your experience?
Sad
Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
My mom
was getting ready for major surgery in the next couple of days and I was very
worried about her.
Was
there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
Helped me really believe in life after death and that even though people we love
have left this world, their love is still always with us
What
was the best and worst part of your experience?
THe best was
just hearing her voice and knowing that she's always with me
Has
your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
I've become a
much more spiritual person
What other
attitudes and beliefs about your experience do you currently have?
Joy
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
as
explained above. now I know that our loved ones are never really gone
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes
This
experience along with the feelings of when I saw my mom in the casket made me
absoulutely positive about life after death
Death
Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
Yes
explained above about my mom's passing
What
emotions did you feel during the experience?
Very peaceful
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
No
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have
you shared this experience with others?
Yes
Most
of my friends and family believed what i told them
Have
you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or
web site?
No
Is
there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
No
thanks!
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes