Kim O ADC
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I had a dream that my friend who died worked at the
hairdressing place that I go to (funny because he was an attorney). I walked in
for an appointment and he was standing at the door and we locked eyes. His eyes
were always so expressive. No words were spoken. I felt such a strong sensation
the closer I got to him. Then these orbs of light and energy started coming off
of him and I felt what seemed like pinging sensations all over my body. They
felt so incredibly real. I can best describe these feelings as vibrations
(pings) of joy, happiness and love coming from him.
Was this experience difficult to express in
words? No
Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of
the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the deceased or hear something
associated with the deceased? No
Did you feel a touch or experience any physical
contact from the deceased? Yes
Vibrations (pings) of energy all over my body
that felt like joy, happiness and love coming from him.
Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
Unfamiliar
Was anything communicated by the touch?
Yes, that he felt happy, joyful and free. And that he felt
love towards me.
Is there any possibility what you felt was from
any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
No
Did you see the deceased?
Yes
He looked slightly different than his normal
appearance when he was alive. A little taller, but his eyes were exactly the
same.
How clearly did the deceased appear?
Solid but with a lightness around him.
How much of the deceased did you see?
I don't remember seeing his feet but saw the
rest of him.
Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the
age at which they died?
Maybe a little younger.
How healthy did the deceased appear to be?
Healthy, taller, thinner. He had a serious back
injury that caused him severe and chronic pain.
Is there any possibility what you saw was from
any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
No
Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance
or odor associated with the deceased? No
How long did the experience last?
It seemed like only a few minutes.
Was the beginning and end of the experience
gradual or more sudden?
I would say it ended abruptly after I felt the sensations
on my body.
Could you sense the emotions or mood of the
deceased? Yes
Happy, joyful, full of love.
Did the deceased give you information you did
not previously know?
No
Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during
the experience: I felt incredibly happy because it
felt like a visitation dream. The physical sensations and the communication
between us when we locked eyes was very comforting.
Was there any emotional healing in any way
following the experience? Yes
As mentioned in my last response, it was healing
for me because he was a very important person in my life. And although I still
struggle daily with his passing, I know he suffered during his life and I am
happy he is free from that.
What was the best and worst part of your
experience? The best part was the physical
sensations of joy, happiness and love that I felt. The worst part of course, was
realizing when I woke up that he was still gone.
Has your life changed specifically as a result
of your experience? Uncertain
Describe: It has just
increased my desire to learn and explore more about the possibility of an
afterlife and that my friend is still 'with me."
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes I am still not 100 percent convinced, but I
do have more of a belief in the afterlife. Not only as a result of this dream,
but also because I have been reading a tremendous amount on the topic.
Did the experience give you any spiritual
understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes My friend was very well read on physics, philosophy
and religions. He spoke often about the 'creative force' at work in the
Universe. I like to look at it that way rather than the traditional Christian
view of who/what 'God' is. I am eager to learn all that I can about the
possibility of an afterlife and I hope to continue to connect with my friend.
Death Compacts are
when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first
will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
No
Did you observe or hear anything regarding
people or events during your experience that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
Very happy and peaceful. I was most happy because I
took it as a sign that he was okay and free from his physical pain and also the
depression that he had suffered from for years.
Was the experience witnessed or experienced by
others? No
Did you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did you have a sense of knowing, special
knowledge, universal order and/or purpose? No
Did you become aware of future events?
No
Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other
special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the
experience?
No
Did you experience a separation of your
consciousness from your body? No
Did you meet or see any other beings other than
the deceased? Uncertain
I think initially when I pulled up to the place
in my dream I was with a friend but not for the whole dream.
Did you see a light?
No
Did any part of your experience seem to occur in
a place other than the location described above? No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes My friend was very supportive. She is a true
believer in the afterlife and after death communication.
Have you shared this experience formally or
informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Is there anything else you would like to add
regarding your experience? No, but thank you for
giving me and other a chance to tell our stories.
Were there any associated medications or
substances with the potential to affect the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other
events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the
experience? No
Did you ever in your life have a near-death
experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?
No
Did the questions asked and information you
provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?
Yes