Karen R's
ADC
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My husband and I were entertaining two couples in our home. It was 9 PM. We were sitting in the living room chatting. Suddenly, the room was filled with the sound of a bird singing. We stopped talking and looked around to see what was going on. Someone asked if I had a tea kettle on. I didn't. The sound was impossible to explain. It was coming from somewhere in the room. After a minute or two the sound stopped and we resumed talking.
At 11PM the phone rang. It was Clara's husband. He told me that Clara (who was living in Bridgeport Conn.) had suffered a massive cerebral hemorrhage and was not expected to live through the night. Apparently she was already brain dead. I said I would be there in the morning. Clara passed away at sunrise the following morning. When asked what time she had collapsed, the answer was nine PM. It was a life changing experience.
I am
anxious to know if anyone else has reported this type of experience, that is,
the singing of a bird. During the nights following this, prior to her funeral,
there was a bird chirping outside of my window.
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the deceased or
hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what
you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
See above paragraph.
Did the voice or
sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not
hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?
See above. Sound was in the room
and was heard by everyone present.
If you heard a
voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the
deceased made when they were alive?
n/a to time of death. On the
anniversary of Clara's death the phone rang and I heard a voice which sounded
like her's. Never told anyone about this, because it sounds crazy.
Is there any
possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
No explanation for the sound at
time of her passing.
Was there any
possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
no.
Did you feel a touch or
experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a distinct
smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the experience
last?
About two minutes.
Was the beginning and end of
the experience gradual or more sudden?
It begain and ended
suddenly.
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
No
Did the deceased give you
information you did not previously know?
No. My sister had been ill
for several years, but there was no indication that she was about to die.
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Please explain
why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:
There was no explanation for what
happened that evening. And it was witnessed by others who were present.
Was the
experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
I could not understand what was
happening. I was simply puzzled.
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
I think I've explained this.
There was no worst part.
Has your life changed
specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
It totally
changed my life.
Did you have any changes of
attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes Too many changes to describe here. It has made me the person I
am today.
Did the experience give you
any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Yes
I know there is life after death. Clara always believed in God and this
experience affirmed her belief, and mine also.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did you observe or hear
anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
Yes Event happened fifty years
ago, but have told this occurence to family and others on several occasions. It
is something I will never forget.
What emotions did you feel
during the experience?
Clara had always said she expected
to die young. I believed this was her way of saying goodbye, and it provided
definite proof that our souls leave our bodies and go to another place. Have had
a lifelong interest in what others have experienced.
Was the experience witnessed
or experienced by others?
Yes
My husband and four other
people.
Did you have any sense of
altered space or time?
No
Did you have a sense of
knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
Yes
Yes. I believe there was a
purpose for the knowledge that was given to me. It has made me the spiritual
person that I am.
Have you shared this
experience with others?
Yes
People are generally interested in what happened but don't say much about it.
Have you shared this
experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Is there anything else you
would like to add regarding your experience?
Please let me know if there have
been others with a similar experience. I personally have never heard anything
just like this, and this puzzles me. That is really why I am writing.
Did the questions asked and
information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
Please offer any suggestions
you may have to improve this questionnaire.
I was happy to find your site. As
I said, I'm always glad to read of other people's experiences.