Julie L's
ADC
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I was resting on the bed at my mother's house. I felt Charles' hand on my forehead. It did not feel like a dream. He was here. He looked some younger and better. I could feel every inch of him and we talked for a long time. I asked about the reading I had with a medium. He was there. I asked if he saw his dad now, if I was supposed to forgive his sisters (as he had asked me to do in the reading). I wanted to know about the place he lives now. He said he has already planted his corn for this year. He has an onyx pickup with all the bells and whistles. When he died he went down almost there. He does things with people. He wants me there but I cant come yet. We were just about to talk about whether there is an end to that life.
It seemed as though he had stayed for hours, but he started to get tired.
Then, he was gone or I
had to wake up.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
I heard his
voice.
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
We were actually
talking.
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
similar
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
no
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
I felt his hand on
my cheek.
Was
the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
familiar, very gentle
Was
anything communicated by the touch?
love and caring
Is
there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
he looked younger
and healthier. He had been very sick when he died.
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
solid
How
much of the deceased did you see?
all
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
he appeared younger
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
very healthy
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
uncertain,
seemed like hours
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
began gradually
but ended suddenly
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
he seemed very happy
and eager to tell me about his new condition
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
yes.
He was obviously
telling me what heaven and the afterlife is like - I certainly did not know
these things.
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
When you experience
something is is real.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
Yes
not at first, but we
left the room and went somewhere else, but when it was over, I was in the same
room.
Describe in
detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I was very happy.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
knowing he is all
right and loves me always helps
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
The best part was just
being with Charles and knowing how happy he is now. The worst was not being able
to go with him.
Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes I know we will be together again
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
peace, happiness
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
Uncertain
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
Uncertain
Did
you become aware of future events?
N0
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Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
N0
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Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes belief, comfort
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Is
there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
because I had already had other contact with my husband this experience was not
transformative by itself, it was simply on e of the most important ones.
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes