Joann H's
ADC
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I had a
friend in the hospital and had been going to see him for 4 days he was by best
friend and on the morning he died I was sleeping but I was woke up by something
and I opened my eyes and saw a bright light over by my bedroom wall and it moved
up to the ceiling and disappeared and I remember thinking why is that light in
my room and I went right back to sleep. About an hour later my phone rang and it
was my friends mother telling me that my friend had died and would I meet her at
the hospital.
Details of location of
experience and your activity at the time of experience:
I was sleeping but I had been
wakened by something and when I opened my eyes I saw this really bright light
over by my bedroom wall and it moved up towards the ceiling and disappeared and
I closed my eyes and went back to sleep. I remember thinking hummm what's that
light doing in my bedroom.
Degree of bereavement for
deceased immediately prior to the experience:
Moderate sadness and/or grief
feelings
Degree of alertness
immediately prior to experience:
Asleep
After your experience, did
you consider the contents of your experience:
Mixed
Have you had multiple
experiences? No
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
Yes
I am afraid no one will believe
me
Did you hear the deceased or
hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a touch or
experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a distinct
smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the experience
last?
a few sec.
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
No
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Please explain
why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:
because I was totality
awake and I saw the light
Was the
experience dream like in any way?
No
What did you feel (while awake)
immediately prior to your experience?
Relaxed
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
I was just tired from all the
visits to the hospital but I was restless and I had woke up many times that
night tossing.
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
made me think that it was my
friend letting me know he was ok now
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
well best part was now I think my
friend has crossed over and he was letting me know that's what had happened and
the worst part is I wish I had been at the hospital with him when he passed
Has your life changed
specifically as a result of your experience?
Uncertain
Did you
have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes I believe more in God now
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes well I
had lost a lot of my faith over the years but I am certain there is life after
death now and I think I will see my friend again after I die
Death
Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What
emotions did you feel during the experience?
peaceful
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did
you see a light?
Yes in my
bedroom
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have
you shared this experience with others?
Yes one person and she's a lady friend of mine that I talk to on line
Have
you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or
web site?
No
Is
there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
no
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes