Joan R's
ADC
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she
started rubbing my hair to relax me while we were talking and i eventually went
to sleep relaxed and happy to know she knew i hadn't left her on her own. i can
smell her at other times and she came to stay in my house a few times since.
my granddaughter has seen and spoken to her a lot since she died but she seems
to have a lot of friends who are dead and even has arguments with them. she is
four and very in tune with people we can't see. even in the canary islands last
year she spoke to a few kids who she said used to live where our apartment was.
she named them and all and they were foreign names that she hadn't heard before
so i know she's not making it up. we don't make a fuss if she talks about
one of her {friends} we just act as if every one can see them too, as she
actually sees them. i did when i was younger but now i only feel them i know
when there is someone there even if i can't see them.
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense an
awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling
or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the deceased or
hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what
you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
i heard her talking to me and felt
her rubbing my hair i could hear her as if she was there beside me
Did the voice or
sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not
hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?
it was like she was talking in my
head and i was answering back in my head i didn't open my mouth yet i had a
conversation with her
If you heard a
voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the
deceased made when they were alive?
it was my ma's voice i would know
it anywhere
Is there any
possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
no i was alone in the house and
the tv was low on a singing station
Was there any
possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
no no way i know what i heard
Did you feel a touch or
experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
she rubbed my hair and my face
Was the touch
familiar or unfamiliar?
it was familiar as my ma knows i like my hair rubbed to relax me and she liked
it to
Was anything
communicated by the touch?
a feeling of peace
Is there any
possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
no
Did you see the
deceased?
No
i saw what appeared to me to be
a circle of light glowing i know that sounds queer but that's the easiest way to
describe it
How healthy did
the deceased appear to be?
the baby i lost has appeared a
couple of times but she gets older every year and is perfect she looks like a
younger version of my other daughter
Is there any
possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
no
Did you smell a distinct
smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
Yes
What smell,
scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
my ma smoked major cigs and they
have a stronger smell than my fathers smokes so you can tell it was her and a
faint smell of perfume or the odd time incense
Was the smell,
scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
as above
Was anything
communicated by the smell?
just a feeling that she was there
Is there any
possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source
present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
no i don't smoke and i have got it
in my car a few times i never let my ma smoke in the car
How long did the experience
last?
the first about an hour and a half
and various times since
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
Yes
the first time i could feel
that she was in shock as she died very sudden and she told me it knocked her for
six
Did the deceased give you
information you did not previously know?
yes about things that we
put in the coffin with her she said to thank my sister for stuff she gave her
that i didn't know about so i said it to my sister the next day and she asked me
how i knew she put the items in and i said ma told me
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Please explain
why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:
i'm not the type to make things
like this up and i know what happened was real
Was the
experience dream like in any way?
Yes
it was in as much as i was
talking in my head not out loud
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
i felt fear first then when i knew
who it was joy
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
she let me know that she was
all right so i didn't feel as if she was on her own
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
the worst part was when she went
and the best was when i knew she had come to see me
Has your life changed
specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you have any changes of
attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
No
Did the experience give you
any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
No
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did you observe or hear
anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
Yes
yes the stuff she said was put
in with her i could ask my sisters about
What emotions did you feel
during the experience?
sad that she went away again but
glad that she came to see me
Was the experience witnessed
or experienced by others?
No
Did you have any sense of
altered space or time?
Uncertain
i felt as if time was standing
still
Did you have a sense of
knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
No
Did you become aware of future
events?
No
Did you have any psychic,
paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have
prior to the experience?
Uncertain
i have always known when
certain members of my family were sick and on a couple of occasions when they
had heart attacks
Did you experience a
separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did you meet or see any other
beings other than the deceased?
Yes
i lost two kids very early in a
previous pregnancy and my niece at six months and iv seen her with them but they
are bigger now they grow and get older as if they were here
Did you see a light?
Yes
it was like a circle of lights
glowing that is the only way to describe it
Did any part of your
experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described
above?
No
Have you shared this
experience with others?
Yes
yes my two sisters and one of
my brothers and a couple of friends
Have you shared this
experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Were there any associated
medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the experience, have
you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which
reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in your life have
a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual
event?
Yes
i lost a baby a few years ago
and was losing a lot of blood they thought i was gone at one stage i just
remember floating away and feeling at peace like i could just let go and float
away
Did the questions asked and
information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
Please offer any suggestions
you may have to improve this questionnaire.
not that i can think of off hand