Jo T Granddaughter's ADC
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My son in law passed away by suicide. His daughter, my granddaughter was staying
at my house that night. She is a preschooler and did not know he was deceased.
It had been a very distressing night for our family and we were in a terrible
state of shock. I had got into bed with her in the effort to try to get her to
go to sleep. She was sitting up in the bed and I was lying down but fully awake.
She pointed with her first finger at the wall in the corner of the room directly
in front of a mirror hanging on the wall. She had a huge smile on her face all
of a sudden and said "Dad". Then "Dadda" all while she was pointing her finger.
Then she looked confused and disappointed and looked away and just carried on
with not going to sleep. I didn't see anything but she clearly did. She wasn't
told he was dead until 2 days later and she was very upset. I didn't ask her if
she saw him - it felt wrong to ask her. I felt like I had witnessed something I
cannot explain.
At the time
of your experience was there an associated life-threatening event?
No
Was the experience
difficult to express in words?
No
At what time during the
experience were you at your highest level of
consciousness and alertness? When she
said "Dadda"
How did your highest level
of consciousness and alertness during the experience compare to your normal
everyday consciousness and alertness?
Normal
consciousness and alertness
I was under extreme stress and acute
grief.
Please
compare your vision during the experience to your everyday vision that you had
immediately prior to the time of the experience.
I was wearing glasses as per normal I had not taken them off.
Please
compare your hearing during the experience to your everyday hearing that you had
immediately prior to the time of the experience.
Hearing as normal
Did you see
or hear any earthly events that were occurring during a time that your
consciousness / awareness was apart from your physical / earthly body?
No
What emotions did you feel
during the experience?
Horrified, confused, privileged
Did you pass into or
through a tunnel?
No
Did you see an unearthly
light?
No
Did
you seem to encounter a mystical being or presence, or hear an unidentifiable
voice?
No
Did you encounter or
become aware of any beings who previously lived on earth who are described by
name in religions (for example: Jesus, Muhammad, Buddha, etc.)?
No
Did
you encounter or become aware of any deceased (or alive) beings?
Yes
Son in law was confirmed deceased that
afternoon by the Police visit to our home. This event happened that night at
11pm. His daughter pointed him out in the room. She behaved like he was really
there, like he had just appeared in the room. She was happy to see him and was
not frightened by his presence.
Did
you become aware of past events in your life during your experience?
No
Did
you seem to enter some other, unearthly world?
No
Did time seem to speed up or slow down?
No
Did
you suddenly seem to understand everything?
No
Did you reach a boundary
or limiting physical structure?
No
Did
you come to a border or point of no return?
No
Did scenes from the
future come to you?
No
During
your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness
suggesting that there either is (or is not) continued existence after earthly
life (“life after death”)?
Yes
My granddaughter recognized and pointed
out her father in the room hours after he had died. Before she knew he was dead.
During
your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness that God
or a supreme being either does (or does not) exist?
No
During
your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness that you
either did (or did not) exist prior to this lifetime?
No
During
your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness that a
mystical universal connection or unity/oneness either does (or does not) exist?
No
During your experience,
did you encounter any specific information / awareness regarding earthly life’s
meaning or purpose?
No
During your experience,
did you encounter any specific information / awareness regarding earthly life’s
difficulties, challenges, or hardships?
No
During your experience,
did you encounter any specific information / awareness regarding love?
No
During your experience,
did you encounter any other specific information / awareness that you have not
shared in other questions that is relevant to living our earthly lives?
No
Did you have a sense of
knowing special knowledge or purpose?
Yes
This is not an experience anyone else I
know has had. It was very specific.
What occurred during your
experience included:
Content that was entirely not consistent with the
beliefs you had at the time of your experience
I consider myself agnostic. I cannot be certain that there is an afterlife
because I need to be dead to find out. This experience has made me question my
agnostic beliefs.
How accurately do you
remember the experience in comparison to other life events that occurred around
the time of the experience?
I remember the experience as accurately as other
life events that occurred around the time of the experience
My
experience directly resulted in:
Moderate changes in my life
Did you have any changes in your values or beliefs after the experience that
occurred as a result of the experience?
Yes
I now believe we have the ability after our death to show our image to our
important people who are still alive. I felt like my son in law was either
having a bit of fun or sending me a message.
Do you
have any psychic, non-ordinary or other special gifts after your experience that
you did not have before the experience?
No
Are there one or several parts of your experience
that are especially meaningful or significant to you?
My daughter and I had been discussing the afterlife weeks before her
husband died. My agnostic beliefs and her beliefs that something exists. She
felt her daughter had been playing with her deceased father in law. I was
skeptic. This was a conversation on messenger.
Have you ever shared this experience with others?
Yes
I immediately told my partner who was in
the house at the time but not in the bedroom. Co-workers. They are mystified
too.
Did you have any knowledge
of near death experience (NDE) prior to your experience?
Yes
What I have read about online - general
stories that have similarities.
What did you believe about
the reality of your experience shortly (days to weeks) after it happened:
Experience was definitely real
I was disturbed by the experience and felt
it has impacted my life since.
What do you believe about
the reality of your experience at the current time:
Experience was definitely real
I have become a bit obsessed with the
stories of others on the internet. I know its grief but I can't forget that
experience.
Have your relationships
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Have your religious
beliefs/spiritual practices changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
At
any time in your life, has anything ever reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
the questions asked and information that you provided accurately and
comprehensively describe your experience?
Yes
I have given all the information to the
best of my knowledge