Jim G's
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My wife prematurely gave birth to our baby boy, Christopher Robin, because of medical problems discovered during the pregnancy. My wife had been pregnant for six months when the problems were discovered, and on the advise of the doctors, it was decided to terminate the pregnancy. The doctors induced labor and my wife delivered Christopher. My wife and I stayed with Christopher, since he was still breathing, until my wife physically could not remain any longer and she was taken to the recovery room. I requested that I hold Christopher until he stopped breathing, because I wanted to be with him until he physically passed from this world. I held him nonstop for over eight hours until his heart finally stopped beating. While holding him, I covered him with some towels that were in the delivery room and I noticed that the towels had a strong sent of baby powered. Although it was a traumatic experience, I derived some comfort and calmness from the "baby powder" scent that enveloped Christopher. I never told anyone about this and soon forgot about it.
My wife and I returned to our residence one day later, and sadly, our first dog we got together, a beautiful female Pomeranian named "Nam Poon" was having problems getting her rear legs to work. She could not walk and she was in obvious pain. My wife, exhausted as she was, went with "Poon" and me to the vet late that night, because "Poon" had been like her "daughter" and the two were very close. The vet could not determine "Poon's" problem, so we finally took her home well past midnite. We placed "Poon" on the floor next to our bed and as much as we tried to keep an eye on her, we both feel fast asleep from exhaustion. When we awoke that morning, we were horrified to find "Poon" still on the floor next and covered in blood. She has hemorraging badly from her rear, so my wife and I raced to get dressed, grabbed "Poon", got into the car and as I started to pull away, "Poon" started to convulse and she died in my wife's arms.
We took "Poon" back
into the house and were just devastated by Christopher's, and now "Poon's"
death. Our Thai maid, who also helped care for "Poon" and our other dogs, also
took "Poon's" death hard. Later that day, the maid told my wife that that right
after "Poon's" death, she experienced the strong scent of baby powder in the
area were we kept our other dogs and she couldn't figure out where it came from,
but she had never smelled it before and we did not have any baby powder in our
house. When my wife told me what the maid had said, I started to cry. Since I
had not told my wife, nor any one else about the experience I had with
Christopher in the delivery room and the baby powder scent on the towels, she
didn't understand my reaction until I told her. We both started to cry and to
this day believe that Christopher came to get "Poon" after she passed.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
Yes
What
smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
Our Thai maid smelled a
very strong scent of baby powder.
Was
the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
Yes, baby powder has a
very distinct scent.
Was
anything communicated by the smell?
I believe my son
Christopher was in the room and came to get our pet "Nam Poon" who had just died
unexpectedly.
Is
there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any
other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
Impossible. We
had no baby powder in the house, nor did we have any product that had that
scent.
How long did the
experience last?
about 5 minutes,
according to the maid.
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
Not sure, but it
appeared to be sudden.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
No
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I did not experience the event, but our maid did and she had no way of knowing
the significance of the scent of baby powder.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I believe my son,
Christopher, came to get "Nam Poon" our pet who died unexpectedly. That is
comforting to me.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
Best: knowing that
Christopher and "Nam Poon" are together.
Worst: Losing both of
them.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you have
any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
Believe in the possibility of life after death.
Did the experience
give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Yes
Helped me to believe the possibility of life after death.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
What emotions did
you feel during the experience?
Sadness and disbelief.
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
Incident was
experienced by our Thai maid.
Have you shared
this experience with others?
No
Not sure what they believed, or how they took it.
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Uncertain
Since the experience
was not felt, or "smelled" by me, many of the questions do not relate.