My  dear husband Glen passed away August 1st after a short battle with cancer.  He had an interest in the after life and a little understanding of people who had near death experiences.  Often he thought there may be an afterlife.  While he lay in the hospital, semiconscious, the nurses keep telling me to talk to him.  Their experience was that the dying can hear, so I did. I encouraged him to go to the light.  He seemed restless and all of a sudden said, 'Mom, mom.'  So I asked him if he saw his mother whom  had died years before.  He said, 'Yes.' Then he slipped into deeper coma. I continued talking to him and asked him to let me know when he made it to the afterlife, if there was one. 

Two days after this, he passed away. 19 days later, which would have been his Birthday, in the early hours of the morning as I lay in bed awake. I turned over to what would have been his side of the bed.  There he was, sitting looking down at me wearing his favorite shirt and slacks. All I thought to say was, 'You made it.' He faded away. 

He came on that special day to let me know there was an afterlife.  I felt happy to see him he looked healthy again and pain  free. I felt good. I will always miss him and love him but it gave me peace to see him for a few seconds, one last time and know he is o.k.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?     No

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?          No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?       No

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?       No

Did you see the deceased?       Yes

He looked healthy and pain free

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            solid

            How much of the deceased did you see?       all

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?   Seemed slightly younger

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?           H was very sick with cancer before so he looked good at the time I saw him

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience? no

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased? No

How long did the experience last?      seconds

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?      Sudden

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?          Yes

Happiness

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?          no

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?          Experience was definitely real

          Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:   I was fully awake .......

          Was the experience dream like in any way?  No

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  I was wide awake thinking about what I was going to be doing that day

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience? Yes

it made me  believe more about the afterlife

What was the best and worst part of your experience?     to see glen  not in pain and  healthy and he did make it to the other side ..

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience? No        

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience? Yes    Made believe more

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?         Yes    I asked him  before he passed  let me know he was ok

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?         Yes

I asked to let me know if he made it and to let me know.

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?         No

What emotions did you feel during the experience?          Happiness  peace

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?          No

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?  No

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?         No

Did you become aware of future events?      No

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience? No

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?  No

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?   No

Did you see a light?        No

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?     No

Have you shared this experience with others?       Yes    told family members they were happy to hear this

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?       No

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience? no

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?          No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?    No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?     Yes 

i have had experience when friend passed and after mother passed.

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?                     Yes

Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.       Everything is fine with this