Janet O's
ADC
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When I got out of the tub, there was steam on the mirror. The first night, I noticed what looked like words. There was the word Hi! and then mine and my husband's names: Janet & Frank. Down below about a foot, but still on the mirror was written the following: L U all, Sue. If came to mind that L U meant love you.
The next night, I took another bubble bath. I enjoy bubble baths because they relax me. When I got out of the tub, I looked at the steamed mirror to see if anything appeared. It did. There were two palm trees; in between the palm trees was the word Hi. Below the trees, two little birds were on the ground. One of the birds had a long, thin beak and instantly the words "down under" popped into my head, since I thought the long beaked bird looked lie a kiwi bird in Australia. Then the image of a bridge appeared to the left of the tropical scene.
I was thinking that the scene was in Hawaii. Sue liked to go to Hawaii. Then I thought maybe the Hi stood for Hawaii. Then it occurred to me that it was paradise. I thought Sue was telling me that she is in paradise. I couldn't figure out the bridge at all. It was a bridge that looked just like the bridge in Monet's water lilies painting, which I have visited in France. Then it hit me that the bridge represented Sue crossing over to the other side.
These experiences in waking life, are much like the dreams I have where events and objects symbolize other meanings.
I have not been afraid when these things have happened. I have been very curious and astonished. I have particularly been surprised, since Sue and I were not close. But, I did find myself being quite sad and wanting to support my brother through this, even though he and I have been at odds through the years.
I have also been
surprised, since I have never had any overt experiences like this in waking
life. I have only had signs from my best friend who died and of course dreams.
Yesterday, I smelled the flowers from her funeral in one particular room of the
house.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
Yes
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No comment
Was
anything communicated by the touch?
No
Is
there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No comment
What
smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
Yes
Was
the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
Funeral flowers
Was
anything communicated by the smell?
It was only in one spot
in one of our bedrooms. I did not know of any communication by the smell.
Is
there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any
other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
No
How long did the
experience last?
The mirror
experience lasted two or three minutes.
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
Gradual - I
didn't see all of the words and images instantaneously. I had to look around
the mirror and study it. The words and images gradually came into view.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Very good mood.
Upbeat.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
No
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I saw the words; I saw the images. They were distinct, not just vague or hazy
images.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I was very surprised.
I was shocked that it was happening.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I felt like Sue
appreciated the fact that I cared about her and her family, even though we had
been somewhat antagonistic towards each other. I felt more loving and accepting
of her. I also feel that way towards my brother now.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
Best part:
Reconciliation with relatives. Worst part: Struggling to see the images; I had
to look at the mirror at different angles to get the whole picture.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
What other attitudes and beliefs about your experience do you currently have?
Other belief
I'm just astonished by it. I waver in my belief of life after death, god, etc.
I still don't know what it is of course, but I liked having the experience. I
have long been a vivid dreamer. I have had dreams that have foretold things and
revealed things to me. I enjoy the experience of being psychically connected
and I hope it continues. I am also happy for how it helped me discover grace
and love towards Sue and Steve.
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes Changed attitude towards Steve and Sue.
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
No I think that it makes me feel that there is something going on beyond
life; what it is, I still do not know.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
Yes
I've
asked my father, when he dies to contact me. He is now 95.
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
Surprise; denial for a while.
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
No
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others? Yes
My husband seemed shocked and said it must have been an apparition. My daughter
was somewhat frightened. Neither of them dismissed it.
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Is
there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
no
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
Yes
Flying in my dreams where I feel like my spirit leaves my body.
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes