James M's
ADC
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A few
years after my grandmother died, I had a dream where she, without speaking,
definitely conveyed that she was fine - all was OK. The strange part about my
dream, though, was the location. I was sitting on something, a stool perhaps,
in a kitchen from around 1905. My grandmother was wearing her hair up like she
did in those old photos from the turn of the century, with a long white dress
on. She was young. She was standing with her back to me as she was ironing
something. There was a rose on the table next to her - laid out, not in a
vase. She slowly turned her head to acknowledge me behind her - I could see
only the right side of her face, she never turned completely around. She had
slight smile, and looked very relaxed. I knew she meant to say, "I'm OK, don't
worry about me." Then it ended. I woke up. I remember it as vividly now as
when it happened 26 years ago. The funny thing is - I told my mother about this
some time later, and described the kitchen, down to the last detail (where the
stove was, what it looked like, etc.). She was shocked because it was the
kitchen in the house where my grandmother grew up on a farm back in Ohio at the
turn of the century. I have never physically been to this house.
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
My grandmother was wearing her
hair up like she did in those old photos from the turn of the century, with a
long white dress on. She was young. She was standing with her back to me as
she was ironing something.
How clearly did
the deceased appear?
Solid and very vivid.
How much of the
deceased did you see?
Entire length of her dress, and
her head and hair in detail.
Did the deceased
appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
No, she was nearly 89 when she
died, and she appeared as she did in photos when she was around 20 years old.
How healthy did
the deceased appear to be?
Very healthy. Normal.
Is there any
possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
No.
Did you smell a distinct
smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the experience
last?
It was a dream - can't really say.
It seemed like it was fairly short.
Was the beginning and end of
the experience gradual or more sudden?
It phased in gradually, but
ended quickly.
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Calm, serene, happy, not
worried about anything.
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Please explain why
you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:
This was about 26 years ago, and I
usually don't remember my dreams. This is as vivid in my memory today as when
it happened.
Was the experience
dream like in any way?
Yes
This was like a dream, but more
constant and vivid.
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
No emotions - only relief that my
grandmother was OK.
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I felt closure with her
death.
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
No worst or best - just a nice
experience.
Has your life changed
specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you observe or hear
anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
No
What
emotions did you feel during the experience?
See #24.
Was the experience witnessed
or experienced by others?
No
Did you have any sense of
altered space or time?
Uncertain
There was absolutely no sense
of time there.
Did you see a light?
Uncertain The room in
the dream scene was bathed in a very warm, welcoming light.
Did any part of your
experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described
above?
No
Have you shared this
experience with others?
Yes
My Mother - she was happy about it. She had a similar dream about HER
grandmother several decades before and forgot about it until I brought up my
experience.
Have you shared this
experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Is there anything else you
would like to add regarding your experience?
No.
Were there any associated
medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?
No
Following the experience, have
you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which
reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in your life have
a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?
No
Did the questions asked and
information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
Please offer any suggestions
you may have to improve this questionnaire.
None.