Jacqueline J's
ADC
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My
father was talking about suicide after my mom passed and my husband and I
lived 200 miles away from him. We were worried about my dad and trying to get
job transfers to Buffalo to be with him. He was stating that he was going to
take all my mother's medication that was in his house and then he would be
with her. My husband and I went and took all the medication and disposed of
it so he couldn't take it. Then he went on a drinking binge and would even
pass out in the car in the parking lot of bars or he'd be out until all hours
of the night drinking.
I went to put an application for a job transfer into the closest institution
by my dad. The head of the institution was a very cold, ignorant, and
uncaring woman. I explained my situation and that I had to get back to this
area to help my father. The woman told me that they were not hiring at this
time, the application would be kept on file, even if they call me for an
interview, it doesn't mean they will hire me. She stated "It depends on if
the interviewers like you or not." Then showed me out of her office. I went
home and cried.
About a week later, my mom came to me in a dream and told me to write a letter
to Albany and I would get my transfer. I woke up excited and a bit confused
because I had no idea of who to send a letter to in Albany. I told my husband
about the dream and asked him what he thought, he got the phone book out and
looked up an address in Albany for the Dept. of Mental Health and I wrote to
them. The letter was very emotional and I asked whoever received it to please
contact me by phone or letter to let me know either way, if they could help me
or not. The man who received it called me on the phone and said that my
letter was very touching and that he called the woman at the institution whom
I gave my application to and that they were going to be hiring soon and I
would be hearing from her. A few weeks later she called and told me that they
wanted me to come in for an interview. I went to the interview and the two
people who were interviewing me told me that I had the job. I thank my mom so
much for her help, I never would have thought to write a letter to Albany. My
dad is doing much better now and even has a girlfriend!
My mom
also helped me out another time after I transferred to Buffalo and was living
with my dad. My dad was very sick and the doctor told me if his temperature
went up to a certain point or if he had trouble breathing, to get him into the
emergency room right away. My dad thought he had a high fever and felt really
hot and wanted me to take his temperature. I looked all over for the
thermometer and couldn't find it. Nobody had used it since my mom passed. My
dad even got up as sick as he was and helped me look for it. We couldn't find
it and dad went back to bed, I had been looking for about a half an hour by
now. I was almost in tears and worried about dad, I went back in the bathroom
to check the medicine cabinet once more. While in there, I said "Ok mom,
where is it?" As soon as I asked this, I heard mom's voice in my head saying
"It's in the box on the chair in the kitchen." There were four chairs at my
dad's kitchen table, but one was against the outer wall by the window and the
curtains hung over the top part of the back of the chair so you didn't see
it. The chair was pushed in and on it, under the table, was a box that my mom
kept some medication and prayer cards in. The thermometer was in there also!
Thanks again mom!
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Did the voice
or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did
you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
In the
dream, it came from mom. She seemed very real. When I asked her where the
thermometer was, the voice was in my head, but it was her voice.
If you heard a
voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the
deceased made when they were alive?
It was her voice.
Is there any
possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Was there any
possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
no
Did you feel a touch or
experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
My mom appeared exactly how
she was when she was alive. We were at her house and having a conversation
about what to do with some of her things and she also told me to write a
letter to Albany. Before my mom passed, she sat me down and did tell me what
to do with certain possessions of hers, so this just seemed like something she
would do. The dream seemed so real.
How clearly
did the deceased appear?
She appeared solid in my dream.
How much of
the deceased did you see?
All of her
Did the
deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
yes, she appeared to be the
age she was when she died
How healthy
did the deceased appear to be?
She seemed to be about as
healthy as she was when she sat me down and told me what to do with her things
when she was alive. She didn't seem any better or worse.
Is there any
possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
I was dreaming, I don't think
so. In the dream we were at her house, when I had the dream, I was at my
house.
Did you smell a distinct
smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the experience
last?
I'm not sure, I was dreaming
Was the beginning and end of
the experience gradual or more sudden?
don't know
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
Yes
She seemed in a cheerful
mood, but she always tried to stay that way, she never let us see her cry, and
she never felt sorry for herself. She worried more about how we were going to
feel when she passed.
Did the deceased give you
information you did not previously know?
Yes, it was very
helpful. I didn't know if I wrote to Albany that some compassionate man there
would help me to get transferred to Buffalo to help my father. I had just
about given up on getting transferred until I had the dream.
How do you currently view
the reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Please explain
why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:
I view it as real because
I am living back in the Buffalo area, I got my transfer. I believed my mom in
the dream and did what she told me, and here I am.
Was the
experience dream like in any way?
Uncertain
It seemed more real than like
a dream, but it was a dream
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
I was excited (happy) that I saw
my mom and that there may be a way to get transferred, but I was confused
because I had no idea who to send the letter to.
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I felt that my mom was ok and
still there to help from the other side when I needed her most. It made me
feel good.
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
Best was seeing my mom and
receiving info on how to transfer, there wasn't a worse part (The worst part
was losing my mom.)
Has your life changed
specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
I transferred in my job
and my religious beliefs have broadened
Did you have any changes of
attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
Did the experience give you
any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Yes
I am more open to the idea of
afterlife and I am currently reading everything I can find on the subject and
going to mediums to try to talk to mom
What emotions did you feel
during the experience?
Elated and very thankful
Have you shared this
experience with others?
Yes, they looked at me like I
had a third eyeball in the middle of my forehead, they think I'm nuts
Have you shared this
experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
Yes
I can't remember the correct
spelling of the names but I'll take a shot at it: Bill and Judy Guggenheim
(the authors of "Hello From Heaven" have a website, I do not know the http
code.
Did the questions asked and
information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes