Haley S's Son's
ADC
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It was
4:30 in the morning approx. 4 hrs and 45 minutes after my partner Matthew died,
I was sitting on the couch in the lounge at my mothers house with my mother and
Matthew's and my son Mason. My son yelled out ''Look'' and pointed to the roof
where there was a skylight he shouted ''look, daddy'' as if Matthew was floating
around the skylight, Mason said ''can't reach daddy'' he extended his arms up as
if he was trying to reach up to Matthew, Mason said ''oh, poor daddy, daddy sore
head - look daddy uppy, bye daddy'' it was amazing, my mother and I looked at
each other stunned it was like Matthew had come back to say goodbye to our son.
Since then Mason has done that once more, the same thing was said by Mason.
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense an
awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling
or smelling them?
Yes
Did you smell a distinct
smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the experience
last?
about 2 mins
Was the beginning and end of
the experience gradual or more sudden?
sudden
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
No
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Please explain
why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:
Because our son is only 2 years
old it was like he was trying to reach up to touch his daddy.
Was the
experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
I was happy because Matthew had
come to show us he was around so soon, the reality of it all had not set in yet.
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
From the early stages after his
death because of my experience I understood he would always be with us.
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
The best part was the fact that he
came back so soon after he died, there really isn't a bad part of it.
Has your life changed
specifically as a result of your experience?
Describe:
No, I am just more aware about
life and the meaning to it.
Did you
have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes My beliefs have not changed much, as I have always believed that there
is life after death. However I am now more aware of things happening around me,
like little signs that he is still around.
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes Once
again I realised that there was life after death and that he would always be
around us.
Death
Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What
emotions did you feel during the experience?
I think I
walked around in a daze, believing that he was coming back.
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
Yes
Yes,
Matthew has appeared in 2 photo's since he died, I feel Matthew touching me and
I also see lights in our house like little balls of Xray light. Our son also
talks of his father after he wakes up from a sleep which makes me think that
Matthew communicates with Mason in his dreams. I read other stories on this page
and there was one about Butterflies and how they would appear and follow you
around, this has been happening to me and other family members.
Have
you shared this experience with others?
Yes Some
people are skeptical while others firmly believe.
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
Yes
My
granffather shortly after he died appeared in a photo.
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes