Hello I am Gustavo and I lost my beautiful wife due to cancer 6 months ago,  when dying she could not speak to me because the condition of her brain did not allow it, therefore in telepathic manner (I listened to it between my ear and my brain) I listened to a soft, fragile and tenuous voice that said to me "TAKE CARE" .  I know I listened correctly because some years before I had listened to a voice from "somebody" in a very lonely street at approximately 1 meter behind me but there was no one there, maybe it was done for me to believe (I did believe in God, but it was hard for me to believe in another life).  This gave me a lot of peace, I commented this to her, she was breathing hard and was agitated, but she let me know she understood what I had spoken to her, after a little while she parted and a smile was painted in her face which marveled all of us.  Three days after,  at exactly the same time of her death, I felt a strong slam in the heater and a smell of bread and roasted meat, I was astonished.  Another day I stepped out of my bedroom for a minute and left a plastic tray on top of my desk, when I came back it was in the same position but on the floor.  Another time I turned on the computer and her eyes in her photo blinked, it did not happen again.  On my cell phone, there are numbers of songs, symbols and addresses that relate with what I'm doing at that moment and that indicates me that she is close to me "always", when she is not around, I know it.  I also have felt a caress on my back, and once, I was so tired and almost asleep in the car, I felt the most beautiful kiss that I wish I could feel again.  I have dreamed about her many times but woke up suddenly, but just once I heard a grave voice in my dream in a language I could not comprehend and I could not talk to it and the next day she told me a word gigantmil fhalodi, the second word is the name of a city in India, but the first one I don't know what it is. 

Another time I dreamed I was in a green prairie and I had to climb to get to a very high place, I got to a bridge made of rustic light wood with a strong rail where many elegant persons were coming down and a blond man did not allow me to go up like demonstrating to me I should not be there, when I came back I had tachycardia and my blood pressure was very high.  I got up and took a sedative, I remembered what I had dreamed and concluded that once we are born our spirit never dies, if we die in this world, we can go to the city of light with bright walls, were there are green prairies, with a river of flowing energy, animals and happy people or to the hot, fetid, reddish and crowded place where we will suffer the consequences of our sins even though we repent ourselves.  I believe that we should fulfill what we promise to our deceased loved ones if we want to have peace with them.  I always pray to God to allow me to talk to my  wife in my dreams.  I miss her a lot and I just hope she will wait for me. 

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No 

Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?        No 

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes 

Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:      I listened the words "take care" and dreamed about of the word "gigantmil fhalodi" 

Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?         Inside of me 

If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?    Yes  

Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?   No 

Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   No 

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased? Yes in my back and a kiss in my lips 

Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?   Very familiar 

Was anything communicated by the touch?  Yes  

Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           No 

Did you see the deceased?         Yes, the same as alive 

How clearly did the deceased appear?            Solid 

How much of the deceased did you see?       Everything 

Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       No 

How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            The same as before  

Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           No 

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      Yes 

What smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?           Bread and roasted meat 

Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?    Very familiar 

Was anything communicated by the smell?   Her presence 

            Is there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?     No 

How long did the experience last?        1 minute 

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         Sudden 

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           No 

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  Yes, the word "gigantmil fhalodi" 

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real 

Was the experience dream like in any way?   Yes I think I was in known places 

What did you feel (while awake) immediately prior to your experience?     Relaxed        

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:    Distracted 

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Yes 

What was the best and worst part of your experience?     It was all good 

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes              

Describe:            I am very grateful to God 

What other attitudes and beliefs about your experience do you currently have?  Joy             

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?   Yes  clung to God 

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?   Yes, I understood we are born once and we don't disappear anymore 

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?   No 

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?     Yes the word "Fhalodi" which is similar to the name of a city in India 

What emotions did you feel during the experience?        happiness and joy 

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           No 

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   Yes 

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    No 

Did you become aware of future events?       No 

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?  No  

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     No 

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?            Yes a blond man  

Did you see a light?           No 

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?          No 

Have you shared this experience with others?         Yes   they did not believe a thing 

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?          No 

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience? No 

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No   

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?       Yes I dreamed a prairie and a bridge and elegant people 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?                     Yes