Erika H's
ADC
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I had just qualified as
a state swimming official. This was my first experience of being the official
announcer for a state swimming meet at an Olympic pool. I was anxious. I saw the
deceased in the spectator stand for a few seconds. He was looking directly at
me, nodded slightly, his body seemed to say, it's OK you can do it. I announced
the event calmly. Looked back to the spectator stand and he was gone. The seat
he had been sitting in was vacant. He appeared again to me about one month later
while I was swimming laps outdoors. No visual appearance. Just his voice spoke.
"Tell Elaine" (his wife) I told his wife about the experience and she fully
believes me. No further encounters to date. NB both these encounters were
totally unanticipated.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
First awareness
was very visual. Second awareness was voice only.
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
First sound was an external sense of knowing/ Second was almost an external
voice
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
Similar
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
Definitely no.
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
Definitely no.
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
Fully recognizable
as prior to contracting the brain tumor and taking medication. i.e. not swollen
or disfigured.
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
Clear. Blended in with
other spectators in the stand
How
much of the deceased did you see?
All in a sitting
position
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
No as per prior to
contracting the brain tumor.
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
Healthy
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No comment
What
smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
no
Was
anything communicated by the smell?
No
How long did the
experience last?
A few seconds
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
Natural as
glancing around and observing someone without focusing on the person
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Calm and confident.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
Deceased
informed me that I was capable of doing something which I myself was sacred of
doing.
Deceased requested me
to inform his wife about the incident of appearance after death to me.
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
The experience was unanticipated and unimagined and could not willed to reoccur.
The few people that I
have related the experience to (relatives of the deceased whom I hardly know)
totally believe my experience.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
focused Calm and
confident
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Uncertain
Possibly a feeling a
sense of "right direction'
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
Clarity of the message.
Not being able to repeat the awareness of experience at will.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Uncertain
Describe:
However I know
that signs are Sometimes I find myself wishing the deceased to reappear. I look
for signs but I know that wishing for "signs" is only superstition. Signs are
not the same as the unexpected/unanticipated experience.
Did you have any
changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
No
Did the experience
give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.? Uncertain Previously I
believed in life after death as something I had been taught. This taught me the
experience not the theory.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
Yes.
On the second experience the deceased asked me to convey the first experience to
his wife and family.
What emotions did
you feel during the experience?
Calm and confident and
reassured and directed
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did you have any
sense of altered space or time?
No
Did you have a
sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
I came to know that the
deceased was aware that I was anxious and that the deceased genuinely knew that
I was capable of carrying out the task in hand.
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
They all believe me and are comforted by the presence.
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
No
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
To the best of my
ability