Ellie G's
ADC
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Was laying on the couch listening to Christmas music feeling sad because my daughter left with her father for Christmas Eve celebration at her dads families house. I was missing my mom A LOT like always and the music was not helping me even though I tried to listen to it because it would get me more in the spirit of the season. Well I just ended up crying. Begging my mom to give me a Christmas gift and visit me. I missed her so bad that would make me feel better.
My dog who was laying on loveseat near me lifted her head and stared to the left of me and wouldn't move. I immediately looked over and there was a man standing there next to me. I immediately sat up a little and said what are you doing? He smiled at me and although no words came from his mouth I could hear him still. He reached his hand out to me and said do you want to see your mother? take my hand. I said not until you tell me who you are. He said just trust me and I will let you see your mom. (Now this man I would guesstimate to be about 5'11" in white pants and a long white shirt, medium brown color hair and about inch of two below shoulders. He was extremely handsome and I would say olive color skin.)
Anyways, reluctantly I
took his hand, I was looking at his hand as I touched it. It was definitely a
man hand, strong yet gentle and then it started to change to a hand I knew very
well. One that as a child would never be mistaken. I immediately looked up as
this man slowly morphed into my mother. Again she didn't speak but smiled at me
with the smile my mom always had to give that showed she loved me. The words I
heard from her were heard but she never moved her mouth and she told me she
still loves me like she had before she left and she always would. Then she
slowly disappeared. I just sat and sobbed after she left. But it was nice.
Many said I was dreaming but I know I wasn't. Call me crazy but I know it was
true. It was real don't care if anyone thinks I am crazy.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
yes
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
although had been a
long time since I heard her voice it was unmistakably hers.
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
no
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
hand
Was
the touch familiar or unfamiliar?
VERY FAMILIAR
Was
anything communicated by the touch?
Just that she loved me
the same as when she was alive and she always would.
Is
there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
NO
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
Well she was also in
white clothing. She looked the same as she had right before she got sick.
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
She looked like a
normal person. not see through totally solid, like normal.
How
much of the deceased did you see?
All or her
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
About same age
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
Normal for her when she
was healthy. Or prior to sickness
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
maybe about 2
minutes maybe 3
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
beginning all of
a sudden and she gradually disappeared.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
happiness
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
no I knew she
loved me and always would.
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
Because I know I was awake. I wasn't drinking, not on medication, eyes were
still sore from crying and music still on. CD didn't have a lot of music as I
made the CD myself. Only had a few Christmas songs on my computer.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in
detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
at first nervous
because the person/being standing by me wasn't anyone who should be in my home.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
yeah anytime I have
an experience where she appears it makes me feel better to know she is still
ever vigilant over me.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
Best part is that she
came to me, worst that she had to leave
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you have
any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
No
Did the
experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife,
God, etc.? No
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a compact?
Yes
I made my mom
promise me that if she could visit me after she passed she would. She said she
would always be around to watch over me and her grand daughter.
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
No
What emotions
did you feel during the experience?
sadness that she left
and happiness that she still was watching over me and knew I needed to see her
or at least wanted too.
Did you meet or see
any other beings other than the deceased?
Yes
Yes a man who I
would like to say was an angel.
Did you see a
light?
No
Did any part of
your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described
above?
No
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
Some looked at me like I was crazy. Some said they believed that I believed what
I saw but they don't think I was awake. I say piss on them I know what
happened.
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Is there anything
else you would like to add regarding your experience?
I looked at it as a
Christmas gift from my mom.
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
No
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
Please offer any
suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.
No it was fine.