normally when I have a dream with someone it is right at the time of their passing. With my father I saw him in this dream on the floor with a pair of bright white tennis shoes on. That is what made me pay special attention to this dream because my father was very specific about the shoes he wore and they were always grey new balance. I have had communication like this for most of my life so i went in search of my father// finding out if anyone had heard from him etc.. he lived in New Mexico and I in az. Nobody had heard from him so we had a neighbor open his house where they found him deceased on the floor of his bedroom.

My Papa is a completely different dream. I knew he had cancer and was very ill. He came to me one night and we were sitting across from each other at a table in a dimly lit room, we spent hours it seemed talking about everything and really nothing important. He then got up and said well I gotta go I love you and everything is alright. I told him I loved him too and at that point I was awakened by the phone and it was my grandmother calling to have me tell my father that my papa had passed.

The dream with the girl on the airplane from Scotland was kind of bizarre. I was sitting on the flight with her and we were sitting across the aisle from each other and stared at each other the entire time the plane was going down. There were no words but the communication was incredible. There was such a peaceful feeling. while all around us there was such chaos going on, here face remained calm and peaceful. I will never forget her face. The next morning I went to my moms where on the news was the story of the crash.

Recently I had a husband of a friend of mine pass away from brain cancer. He came to me in my dream and told me that he was confused and scared. I have never had one like this and I didn't really know what to tell him except that I had heard that there was a light that he should see and that he should go towards it. He then told me that he did not want to leave his wife and that he was going to stay with her..

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          Yes

            Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:    played out like a dream . It is always very clear.

            Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you, or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was communicated?  in my  mind. dream

            If you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound the deceased made when they were alive?           similar

            Is there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

            Was there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?   no

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            No

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

no difference

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            clear

            How much of the deceased did you see?       all

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       yes

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            healthy

            Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?           no

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

How long did the experience last?        as long as the message needed to take..

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         sudden

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           Yes

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  yes, the fact that they were deceased, what they felt.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           because there are specific messages that are documented like day of death, events that occur.

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   Yes

they are all dreams for me. That is the way they communicate.  

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           I was fearful because I did not want anything to happen to my loved ones and when I get these dreams I know there is nothing I can do it is already over. It has been a burden for a long time.

Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Uncertain

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      knowing when people die. There is no best

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         No      

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?   No       Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?  No            does not really have anything to do with any of that.

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?        Yes

my husband and I. If I go first he will not be able to hear me because he is not open to it. We all have the ability we just need to listen.

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes I have explained several in my story. I would love to find out who the young woman on the plane crash was.

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            grief

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Yes

I always document or tell someone close to me when I have a dream.

Have you shared this experience with others?         Yes     there were varied reactions. they all believe in me. I think my mother was afraid of it.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No

 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?       I know that my dreams are a direct communication with the dead. I have never thought of it as a gift or a curse, it makes me sad when I seee what has happened. I feel ok about them wanting to use me as a voice, a lot of times they are just confused or scared and it seems to help when I just talk to them for a little while till they get "settled in"

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes