Deidra G's
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When my husband passed, he was in the hospital very ill. He had been there a week and 1 day, and I had been up for two days straight, my mom came to stay there with me to help while I got some sleep in a bed next to him.
When I woke up in the
morning, I went to check on him and his body was cold, he wasn't breathing, and
had no pulse. The medical personnel came in a pronounced him. I was so upset
that I was asleep, I was in the bathroom talking about with my mom. We went back
out into the room and I looked at him, and he was breathing! Mom and I both went
over to him, and touched him and his body was warm. Called medical staff and
they couldn't believe it. They said nothing like that had ever happened before.
No one dies, is pronounced and comes back. I took his hand, told him I loved
him, told him I would miss him, but if he was ready to go, I'd be alright. He
nodded his head. He left then, and was gone that time. I firmly believe he came
back so I could say good bye. I was listening to one of those medical shows and
they were saying that a body has to be dead for at least an hour to be cold.
Yet, my husband came back from that for me. It took my mom weeks before she
could even talk about it. She was just so shocked.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
Yes
Just so
unbelievable, stunned!!
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
Yes
What
smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
Two weeks after his
passing I smelled cigarette smoke in the corner of living room I was in. Now he
never smoked in there and no one had been in the house that smoked. Both my
dogs came over to the area and started sniffing the air. That is how I knew I
wasn't imagining it.
Was
the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
Cigarette smoke. My
husband was a smoker but never in the living room.
Was
anything communicated by the smell?
Just that it was my
hubby popping in.
Is
there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any
other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
No
How long did the
experience last?
Just a few
minutes.
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
More like it
was there long enough for me to smell and both dogs to smell it, then it was
gone.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
Because all the medical staff and my mom witnessed it. The smoking one, my
dogs both smelled it. Dogs can't lie.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
When in the hospital
definitely sad, upset, miserable.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Uncertain
It was just such a
shock that he left and came back, I was relieved I got to say bye, but sad
because he went away.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
That I got to say
goodbye and worse is that he went away for good.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
It's made me
more spiritual.
Did
you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
N0
comment Never really considered life after death communication
before.
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes I know there is definitely life after death, and my husband will be
there waiting for me. I am ready to go anytime and happy to do so.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
Other shock and relief that I got to say goodbye.
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
My
mom and the medical staff
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
No
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
No
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes Some where awed, and some just look at you in disbelief.
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
Yes
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Is
there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
no
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes