Debra's
ADC
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I was, to put it
delicately, in my bathroom reading. Sissy, a Boston Terrier, was a strong
personality and didn't like being closed out of any room, especially the
bathroom. All at once, there was a scratch at the door, just like she would do,
with her paw under the door. I opened the door, puzzled, as no other of the dogs
could get to that part of the house. Nothing that I could see was there. I also
had another incident. My daughter was visiting and she needed Chap stick, so she
went to my room to get it. While in there, she lovingly patted the box holding
Sissy's remains and told her how much she was loved and missed. My daughter came
back into this part of the house, looked towards this area I always "see things"
(it is like catching a fleeting glance at something, you do a double take and
nothing is there, just in this one spot), and said Tommy the cat was in the
house. I said that he wasn't, and she even went back through but he was not
there. I asked her what made her think he was, and she said well, I saw him! I
told her I knew he was outside. Then she started to cry and told me what she had
done in my room. I told her that Sissy was just popping in to say hi.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Yes
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
I actually heard
the scratch at that door, no doubt at all about that.
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
Outside, right under that door.
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
Exactly the same, why
it startled me.
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
Just a few
seconds each time
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
Sudden, both
times happened instantly and unexpectedly.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Persistence....that
was Sissy!
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I know what I heard, and I know what my daughter experienced was real. Up until
that time, she thought my "sightings" were a figment of my imagination. Now she
knows it is real. That was why she cried.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
Startled for me because
I KNEW none of the other dogs could have possible been in that part of the
house. And I knew it was Sissy....she was the only one that ever did that. It
was amazing because I knew when I opened that door, I would see nothing there.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I know that when we
go, we are in a good place and keep in touch with those we love.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
The best was knowing
Sissy is still around. The worst is that we are not together physically like we
used to be.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
it is comforting
to know that life DOES go on.
Did you have
any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
I know for certain our loved ones that pass over are still with us.
Did the experience
give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Yes
Oh, absolutely. I no longer fear death and almost welcome it, will rejoice
because I know it is going to be a very happy reunion on the other side that
day.
What emotions did
you feel during the experience?
Joy, that it is true,
that there is visits from the other side of life.
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
I think some believed me and some probably didn't. But many have also shared
their experiences with me.
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
No
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
This is exactly the
way it happened.