Deborah B's
ADC
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I was counseling a
cancer patient in his last stages. He had a fear of leaving his family and
death. We talked about death and used hypnosis to help with his pain control.
Spoke about options. After 3 weeks of working with him, I woke up about 1:30 am
and looked at the bedroom door. There he was standing there, glowing, happy; I
got the sense he was telling me everything is okay now. I called the hospital
the next morning about 10:00 am and the nurse told me he passed in the night,
perhaps about 1:00 am
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
Standing, flowing
energy, translucent
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
transparent
How
much of the deceased did you see?
full body, less beard
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
yes appeared to be
the age at death
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
Two orange size cancer
tumors protruding through rib cage and diagnosed as incurable
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I believe he came to me to let me know he was okay with his passing
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in
detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
It only lasted seconds,
yet seemed suspended, Confused at first then quite calm
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
After the
experience, there was a little grief in his passing -- then calm knowing he was
okay
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
Knowing he made a
decision and was clear and felt okay
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Yes
Describe:
More open to
opportunities
Did
the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes Proof
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
Yes,
but not with this person
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
Yes
Called hospital and nurse confirmed death
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
Curiosity and excitement to confirm the next morning
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
Yes
Seconds passed, yet seemed timeless
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
Yes
Knowing of his passing without knowing it in the physical.
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
Yes
Just
surrounding the patient
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
Yes
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
Yes
Many
OBE's and dimension stuff
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes