Da'Lairr R's
ADC
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Soon after my mother
passed away in Sept. 08 I began seeing this small ball of light out of the
corner of my eye. it seemed to be happening more often when she first passed (as
in several times a day) and now it only happens once or twice a day. I mostly
see the light in the evening. and most frequently in my staircase where I have a
large picture of her hanging. when it first began to occur I called my aunt (my
mother's sister) and told her of the strange happening. she told me that she too
has been witnessing this light. she was practically finishing my sentences for
me while I was describing the occurrences to her, indicating that she knew
exactly what I was talking about. she went on to explain that she had at first
felt that there was something wrong with her eyes and had actually scheduled an
appointment with her eye doctor. after speaking with me we both concluded that
it had to be my mother possibly trying to communicate with us or send some type
of message. I also noticed that the light often appears when im around certain
people, for example, right when they come to my front door or soon after coming
into the house. my boyfriend (of nearly two years) and I, broke up soon after my
mothers death. I became involved (romantically) with a close guy friend a month
or so later. every time he was at my house, I would see the light come and go.
he later turned out to be a jerk and started threatening my life after we had a
bad argument. since then, the guy that I was with beforehand and I have decided
to try to work things out. I often see the light when he's at my house as well.
my mother knew him and thought he was a good guy. so I guess im trying to
determine if this ball of light is her presence, whether or not she's just
trying to let me know that she is here, and also when she appears when im around
certain people, if she is trying to warn me about that person or encourage me. I
would also like to state that since my mother passed I have had four dreams that
in a way predicted something that was going to happen or a way that I was going
to feel, one to three days beforehand. I feel that she is sending me messages as
to try to warn me or prepare me for things that are to come. I say that this is
directly related to my mother because I've never had dreams like this before.
Was this experience
difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
Yes
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
What
smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
I have smelled her at
random times, but never at the same time as seeing the ball of light.
Was
the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
yes, it was a product
that she would put on her body... like a massage oil.
Is
there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any
other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
no
How long did the
experience last?
the experience
is practically daily and usually last for several seconds.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
No
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I know it is real because it keeps happening. I have heard about other people
having similar experiences, including my aunt.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
Uncertain
the dreams are
dreams...I wake up. the ball of light is definitely not a dream or even
dream-like
Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I feel like she
is there and that I should say hello and ask her questions. I also feel that I
should talk to her about my feelings. I feel like I should ask her is something
wrong or getting ready to happen.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I feel like she is
in a better place for sure. I'm not afraid of the light. initially it made me a
little uncomfortable, probably because I didn't know what it was.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
hard to answer.... I'll
have to get back to this question
Did the
experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife,
God, etc.?
Yes
that there is an afterlife and that those that we have lost are still with us...
just in another way
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
Yes
in relation to the dreams, in one I dreamt that I was driving past a person that
works at a convenient store near my house. in reality I saw this person often.
in the dream I was driving by him very, VERY, slowly. there was nothing going on
in the background, I was just watching him. the next day (reality) this person
sexually assaulted me in the parking lot in front of the store that he works at.
I also dreamt another time that my wheels were stolen off of my car. a few days
later (reality) I damaged both of my back tires and had to get a whole new set
of rims for my car. in the dream I was very upset. afterwards I felt that the
dream was a warning that I was about to loose my current wheels and would have
to get new ones.
What emotions did
you feel during the experience?
mixed.
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
my aunt says that
she has being seeing the same ball of light. also only in her left eye.
Did you have any
sense of altered space or time?
N0 comment
Did you have a
sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
N0 comment
Did you become
aware of future events?
Yes
see above. #29
Did you have any
psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did
not have prior to the experience?
Yes
see above #29
Did you experience
a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did you meet or see
any other beings other than the deceased?
Yes
in the dreams, yes.
Did you see a
light?
Yes
light occurs often
Did any part of
your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described
above?
No
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
they have just listened. some agree with my feelings, others, not so much.
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
No
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
I did the best I
could
Please offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire. no. done great