Christopher K's
ADC
|
On the
morning after his funeral I was in bed, lying on my left side as I often do. I
was just awake when I felt this very familiar feeling of his fingers running up
and down my side like he always did. I then with out thinking rolled and said
out loud "Paul, stop that." At that instant the sensations went away and I
realized that Paul had come to me in his playful five year old to way to let me
know he was okay and that I should get on with things. He came to me in this
manner once more about three months later. He also came to me in a dream
several years ago to show me how he looked now that he was grown.
Did you feel a touch or
experience any physical contact from the deceased?
Yes
As stated above, I felt small,
five year old fingers running up and down my right side as I lay on my bed.
Was the touch
familiar or unfamiliar?
Very familiar
Was anything
communicated by the touch?
Playfulness and a feeling that
things are going to be okay
Is there any
possibility what you felt was from any other source present in the surroundings
at the time of your experience?
No.
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a distinct
smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the experience
last?
Several Seconds to half a minute
in each instance
Was the beginning and end of
the experience gradual or more sudden?
sudden
Could you sense the emotions
or mood of the deceased?
Yes
As stated above, playful and
happy
Did the deceased give you
information you did not previously know?
He communicated to me at
another time that he was with his spirit guide Kamel. I was thinking about him
and wondering who he was with on the other side. I happened to look into the
closet he and I had shared and saw that his spelling blocks were still there
(this was soon after the funeral and we had not packed up his personal effects
yet). I had noticed a short time earlier that the blocks were just scattered
randomly on the floor of the closet. When I looked again just after asking the
question as to who he was with, they had been turned to spell Kamel.
How do you currently view the
reality of your experience?
Experience was definitely real
Please explain
why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:
I firmly believe the reality of
the experience(s) in question due to have already experienced Psychic phenomena
in the past.
Was the
experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail your
feelings/emotions during the experience:
Having just come from sleep I was
slightly groggy and annoyed that my brother was trying to wake me up when I had
been through a very trying week and just wanted to rest.
Was there any emotional
healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
I had been devastated by the
whole experience of the late night vigils in the intensive care area of the
hospital, the strain of trying to be the strong person giving others support and
a shoulder to cry on when I needed the same thing myself, the experience of
having my loved one at the time tell me she was not going to the funeral home or
the funeral as the thought of death scared her and she would not even do these
things for the person she loved.
What was the best and worst
part of your experience?
The best part of the experience
was knowing that my brother was happy and secure. The worst part was the
finality and the reality that unless he came to me from the other side, that I
would not see him again until I cross over.
Did you have any changes of
attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Yes
As I have stated above, this
strengthened some already held beliefs.
Did the experience give you
any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Yes
These experiences I had after
my brothers death (and an NDE I experienced four years later) gave me a much
clearer understanding that while life as we understand it ends, there is still
something beyond.
Did you observe or hear
anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel
during the experience?
What I felt most was a sense of
peace.
Have you shared this
experience with others?
Yes
The reactions were generally
positive. Most of the people I have spoken to about this have also had "other
worldly" experiences at sometime in their lives.
Have you shared this
experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Were there any associated
medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the experience, have
you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which
reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in your life have
a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual
event?
Yes
I have had out of body
experiences since I was child. I had a NDE when I was twenty years old and was
in the hospital for extremely severe pneumonia. The most notable out of body
experience I have had was late one night when I was involved in a serious car
wreck. I had my best friend and some other with me. My car was struck from
behind and sent careening out of control with the accelerator jammed wide open.
We were heading for a head on collision with a telephone pole when I seemed to
lose awareness of where I was. When awareness came back, the telephone pole was
sliding along the drivers side of the car. Later while talking to my parents
about that night they told me they were woken by the sound of two pair of feet
running down the hall from the front door and into the room that had been mine
before I moved out. We came to the conclusion that since the accident happened
about two miles from their house, that my friend and I escaped our bodies and
ran to the safest place in the area, which was my old room in my parents house.
Did the questions asked and
information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
The answers accurately
described the experience in that I can still recall in exacting detail what
happened.
Please
offer any suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.
Some of the questions seem a bit
redundant as they ask for answers that have already been given before. I think
the form is a little bit lacking since the questions do not really make any
allowance for multiple experiences. You might want to think about adding a
question or two about them.