Cheryl T's
ADC
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I had to have Babe, my 15 year old Dalmatian, euthanized on January 18th due to deteriorating neurologic status. He had deteriorating spinal function over a two year period (was incontinent of stool, began having trouble getting up and walking), and began recently having signs of deteriorating brain function to the point where he was unable to take in food himself, had very strained swallowing and had body tremors with extreme panting and complete incontinence.
On January 29th, I picked up Babe's ashes from the vet after having his body cremated. That night, around 10:30 pm, I placed Babe's ashes on the shelf of my bed's headboard and went to sleep. At 12:20 a.m., I awoke to the smell of poop in the house. When Babe was alive, waking to the smell of poop meant Babe had had an accident in the house, and I would fly out of bed to find and clean up the mess. Since Babe was now gone, I assumed one of my kitties had pooped in the litter box, so I got up and went into the bathroom to clean the litter box. However, there was no poop in the litter box, and the smell of poop was now gone. I started to scoop the pee out of the litter box (I use a clumping litter) when all of a sudden I heard what sounded like someone knocking on my bedroom window (it was a series of about 9 knocks). My heart started to race because someone would have to climb over a 6 foot block wall and locked gate in the middle of the night to get to my window, and that would have to be someone with malicious intent. I was afraid to look at the bedroom window, so I peaked out of the bathroom toward the patio in the living room and I could see no one was outside on the patio (I leave the outside light on all night). Also, I was kind of comforted that my little dog Chico was not barking, because he always goes crazy with any kind of knocking sound or any sound indicating someone might be outside. So I started to think it was just one of the cats thumping on the furniture as they scratched or something.
So I went back to scooping the litter box. But the knocking started again. This time I dropped the litter scoop and hurried toward the bedroom. As I reached the bedroom the knocking stopped (again, the same pattern of about 9 knocks). I could see there was no one at the bedroom window, and I noticed that the knocking sound had come from the vicinity of my headboard, where Babe's ashes were. I picked up the large plastic container that held Babe's ashes and knocked on it. The sound was close, but not exact, and I said to myself "don't be ridiculous, Babe is NOT knocking on the container holding his ashes"! I set the container back down on the shelf and stood puzzled, looking at it, when the knocking started again. This time I noticed a flashing light to my right. I turned toward my clock radio which was located one shelf down and to the right of Babe's ashes. The knocking sound was coming from the speakers of my clock radio and each time the knock sounded, the display light would flash bright. It was again the same pattern of about 9 knocks/flashes.
I immediately began checking the wire connections on the clock radio to see if they were tight and to see if wiggling them affected the knocking/flashing (it didn't) and, once the knocking stopped again, to see if wiggling the connections caused any sound or changed the display light (it didn't). All the connections were tight, the plug was securely in the outlet, and the alarm was not set. (By the way, my alarm does not knock and it does not cause the display light to flash). I tested the radio. I turned it on and quiet music played as expected, then I turned it off again. I stood there puzzled, looking at the clock radio when the knocking/display light flashing started again. This time, I placed the palms of my hands on the speakers of the clock radio and while feeling the "thumps" of the knocking I said "BoBo, is that you?" (BoBo was one of Babe's nicknames). The knocking stopped and I said "If you're trying to tell me you're OK, I got the message", and I felt a joy and peace that I hadn't felt since Babe started getting sick.
And that was the end of it. The clock radio never knocked or flashed again. That clock radio had never done anything unusual before that experience, and it hasn't done anything unusual since then. And during all the knocking, my little dog Chico never once barked. He just lay quietly on the bed watching me. I think Chico knew it was Babe and nothing to be alarmed about. And I really believe it was Babe trying to tell me he was OK, and I believe he was able to move on after I told him I got the message.
The only thing I
couldn't figure out at first was why he would make a knocking sound to
communicate with me. Then I remembered that before Babe started having spinal
problems, he always had what I called "a case of Chronic Happy Tail". Babe
would happily swing his tail back and forth all the time, thumping it on
anything and everything around him. It was something we would always laugh
about. I think the knocking sound was Babe thumping his tail again. I think
Babe was saying to me "Look mom, I can thump my tail again, and I'm happy".
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
Uncertain
Describe what you heard, how clearly you heard it and what was communicated:
As I mentioned
in my narrative, I believe the knocking sound was Babe thumping his tail,
electronically.
Did
the voice or sound seem to originate externally or outside of you, inside you,
or did you not hear a voice or sound, but had a sense of knowing what was
communicated?
As I mentioned, the sound came from the speakers of the clock radio, but I had a
sense that it was Babe communicating to me that he is OK, that he can thump his
tail again, and that he is happy.
If
you heard a voice or sound, was it similar or dissimilar from the voice or sound
the deceased made when they were alive?
The sound was a vary
real knocking sound, similar to the sound Babe's tail made when he would thump
it on many different things (furniture, walls, doors).
Is
there any possibility what you heard was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
NO. The sound
absolutely came from the speakers of my clock radio. When I placed my hands on
the speakers, I could feel the thumping vibration of the speakers with each
knock. And as I mentioned, I could not get the clock radio to reproduce the
sound and flashing display no matter what I did to it, and the clock radio has
never done anything like this before, or since.
Was
there any possible impairment to your hearing at the time of the experience?
No.
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
Yes
What
smell, scent, fragrance or odor did you smell?
As I mentioned, I was
awakened by the smell of poop in the house, when it turned out that there was no
poop anywhere in the house. This was a smell I definitely would associate with
Babe because he had been incontinent of stool for 2 years before he died. I got
very used to waking to the smell of poop and coming home to the smell of poop
because of all the accidents Babe had in the house over the past 2 years.
Was
the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?
Yes. Please see the
answer to the first part of Question #8.
Was
anything communicated by the smell?
It woke me up and got
me out of bed, as it had while Babe was alive and having accidents in the house.
Is
there any possibility that the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any
other source present in the surroundings at the time of your experience?
No. At first I
thought one of the cats had pooped in the litter box, but it turned out that
there was no poop in the litter box, and the smell went away once I noticed this
(just before the knocking started).
How long did the
experience last?
I'm not sure, I
think about 5 or 6 minutes.
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
sudden
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
Happy.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
Before the
experience, I believed Babe was in a better place, free of pain and suffering,
but I wasn't absolutely sure, and I was very sad because I wasn't sure, and
because I missed him so much. The experience helped me to know how happy Babe
truly is now, and has eased my mourning (I still miss him, but at least I know
I'll see him again someday).
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I heard the knocking, felt the vibration of the speakers, saw the display light
flashing. The clock radio never did this before or since, and only did it about
2 hours after I brought Babe's ashes into the house and placed them near the
clock radio.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in
detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:
As I mentioned, at
first I was fearful because I thought a stranger was knocking on my window in
the middle of the night. Then I was puzzled because of what the clock radio was
doing. But when I realized it might be Babe trying to communicate with me, I
felt happy, relief, peace, I felt blessed.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
Yes
It eased my mourning
as I mentioned above. And it eased any guilt I felt about at times losing my
patience with Babe and his incontinence. I know now that if Babe took the time
and effort to bring me this message, that he loves me too and understands that I
did the best I could for him.
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
There was no worst part
to the experience. The best part was realizing it was Babe, and what he was
trying to tell me.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
No
Did you have
any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
Uncertain
I've always felt that animals are eternal spirits and go to heaven when they
die. This is just confirmation of that belief for me.
Did the experience
give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God,
etc.?
Yes
That even animals are spiritual eternal beings, and that God Loves them all
dearly too, and wants them to be happy (and I think God and the Angels laugh at
Babe's thumping "Happy Tail" also).
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did you observe or
hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be
verified later?
No
What emotions
did you feel during the experience?
Relief that Babe was OK
and happy. I felt very peaceful, and I felt Blessed that God would allow Babe
to bring me a message.
Was the experience
witnessed or experienced by others?
No
Did you have any
sense of altered space or time?
No
Did you have a
sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?
Uncertain
Only that mentioned
in my answer to #27 above
Did you become
aware of future events?
No
Did you have any
psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did
not have prior to the experience?
No
Did you experience
a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did you meet or see
any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did you see a
light?
Yes
But just the
flashing light on the clock radio display
Did any part of
your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described
above?
No
Have you shared
this experience with others?
Yes
My boyfriend and mom agree it was Babe communicating with me. My brother
doesn't believe it was, but he is an electrical engineer and is unable to come
up with any explanation of what could have caused my clock radio to do that.
Have you shared
this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?
No
Is there anything
else you would like to add regarding your experience?
No.
Were there any
associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the
experience?
No
Following the
experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or
substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did you ever in
your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other
spiritual event?
Yes
I've had several
spiritual events in my life that have led me to know that there is a God who is
real and who loves us dearly, but they are personal experiences I'd rather not
go into here. I've never had an NDE or OBE.
Did the questions
asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your
experience?
Yes
Please offer any
suggestions you may have to improve this questionnaire.
No.