After
Death Communication
(ADC)
is a spontaneous contact or communication with a deceased friend or family
member. ADC may include any of the following (alone
or in any combination): Sensing
the presence
of the deceased, which may be
described as a distinct knowing or sense they are present. The deceased is
generally described as a loving presence and the experience as joyous. Seeing
the deceased which may involve seeing all or part of them, clearly or
incompletely. Hearing
the deceased, which may include one way or two way conversation. This
conversation may be heard externally, as we hear in our everyday lives,
or it may be heard internally, as telepathic communication. Feeling
the deceased, which is usually described as a tap, hug, kiss or caress.
The touch is generally described as typical of how the deceased used to
lovingly touch the experience. Smelling the
deceased, usually described as a fragrance, aroma or scent which was associated
with the deceased. This may include the scent of perfume, cologne,
flowers, etc.
What is clear is that
ADC is not a hallucination
or mental/psychiatric dysfunction. They are real. ADC experiencers we
talked with generally felt their experience was significant and meaningful.
ADC
experiencers may have questions regarding their experience, yet usually have a deep
sense the experience was real.
We are impressed with both the similarities
and dissimilarities of ADC experiences. While some experiencers have a
detailed and prolonged experience, others have a shorter and less
"dramatic" experience. We believe all ADC experiences are
significant and important in our quest to learn their meaning.
ADC experiences are very common. Surveys of adults from
around the world consistently find 20% - 31% of the respondents answer
affirmatively when asked if they had ever felt they had contact with someone who
had died. When widows are surveyed, 47% - 51% believed they had contact
experiences.
ADC experiences are occasionally witnessed by more than one
person. Some ADC experiences convey information to the experiencer they
did not previously know and could not have otherwise known. Examples of such communication
include the location of missing money or heirlooms, or a warning to the
experiencer of previously unknown imminent danger.
ADC experiences may occur prior to the experiencer knowing
about the death of the deceased one who appears to them. This observation
along with multiple documented ADC experiences occurring 10 or more years from
the time of death of the loved one thoroughly refutes the argument that ADCs are
only acute grief related reactions. ADCs are real. More information
on ADCs may be found in Intro to After Death
Communication.