Bobbi F's
ADC
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I was sitting on a
bench facing the check in area for hospital patients and looked up and saw a
woman dressed in a 3/4 camel vest with black knit top and camel slacks and she
looked exactly like my best friend's mother who had recently died. The vision
was of her in a much healthier state. The vision came toward me and the turned
to the right, walked past my other friend, out the electric doors and then
vanished into thin air. Both of us immediately asked each other if we had
actually seen our friend's mother and the answer was yes. Neither one of us has
been able to stop thinking about this.
Was this
experience difficult to express in words?
No
Did you ONLY sense
an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing,
feeling or smelling them?
No
Did you hear the
deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?
No
Did you feel a
touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?
No
Did you see the
deceased?
Yes
She was walking
toward me and was wearing a 3/4 camel vest, black knit top and camel slacks and
her face was that of my best friend's recently deceased mother. Her physical
appearance was that of a healthier time in her life.
How
clearly did the deceased appear?
Extremely clear and
very much looked as alive as myself and my friend.
How
much of the deceased did you see?
I saw her from the
front and back and so did my friend.
Did
the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?
She appeared to be
younger.
How
healthy did the deceased appear to be?
She looked like she did
before she became ill. There was no sign of illness.
Is
there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in the
surroundings at the time of your experience?
No
Did you smell a
distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?
No
How long did the
experience last?
Approximately 3
minutes
Was the beginning
and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?
It was the same
until she got outside and then vanished into thin air.
Could you sense the
emotions or mood of the deceased?
Yes
She seemed to be at
peace.
Did the deceased
give you information you did not previously know?
No
How do you
currently view the reality of your experience?
Experience was
definitely real
Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not
real:
I think having both of us see the same thing at the same time made is very real.
Was
the experience dream like in any way?
No
Describe in detail
your feelings/emotions during the experience:
I sat in silence
waiting for the woman to come to talk to me and could not believe that she
looked exactly like my friend's mother.
Was there any
emotional healing in any way following the experience?
No
What was the best
and worst part of your experience?
The spirit appeared to
be healthy and at peace was the best part. The worst part was that she walked
out the door and then vanished into thin air.
Has your life
changed specifically as a result of your experience?
Uncertain
Describe:
We are both
looking for an explanation as to what we saw.
Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
No
Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death,
afterlife, God, etc.?
Yes We were unsure of the reason for the spirit's appearance and felt that
we would like to know why she appeared.
Death Compacts
are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies
first will try to contact the other(s). Have you ever made such a
compact?
No
Did
you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience
that could be verified later?
No
What emotions did you feel during the experience?
Both
of us knew we were not losing our minds but we could not believe we saw the same
thing at the same time.
Was
the experience witnessed or experienced by others?
Yes
My
friend saw the spirit first and then shortly thereafter I also saw the same
thing.
Did
you have any sense of altered space or time?
Yes
Only
that we both knew she was dead yet we were both looking right at her.
Did
you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or
purpose?
No
Did
you become aware of future events?
No
Did
you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience
that you did not have prior to the experience?
No
Did
you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?
No
Did
you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?
No
Did
you see a light?
No
Did
any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location
described above?
No
Have you shared this experience with others?
No
Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher
or web site?
No
Is
there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?
No
Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect
the experience?
No
Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life,
medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?
No
Did
you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or
other spiritual event?
No
Did
the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively
describe your experience?
Yes